Things have been going in between bumpy and smoothly for the the ninth year.
We’re still in the early pre-teen phase but for those who has been dealing with non typical child development problems since early years, we start noticing some issues that need to be addressed more seriously with the help of expert. Unless it’s something which the consequences is irreversible (like getting married or having kids), early is always better. Things that we work on are still around her difficulties.
One of the best presents we received this year : we finally meet a local child psychologist who understands us, the parents. A psychologist who is in the same frequency, who understands what we know and read, who validates our thoughts and feeling. We finally meet one who is willing to find out what she doesn’t understand in order to help the little girl, and make a decision and tailored therapy based on that.
We rarely meet this kind of psychologist here. Someone with different insights and experiences than the typical one. More, one that builds good rapport with the kid. We’ve been having more than five sessions in few months and so far, I am quite pleased with everything.
Even better, it is located just 10 mins drive from home.
I observe a pattern, apart from any kind of diagnosis she has, she is blessed with one important thing : she happens to always meet the right people at the right time to help her with whatever she needs. A true Godsend. Hopefully, it will stay that way. Amiinn.
We still have a lot of homeworks to be done.
I hope we could finish them all ‘on time’.
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As an only child, school is the village to cover what we couldn’t provide at home : meeting other kids regularly. For someone who rarely survive and not really into playdates, school is the only option. That’s the main reason why I send to school.
School delivery and pick up has been one of the most interesting parts during the last few years.
School during autumn term was one of the best core memories in motherhood. Every single morning during autumn never failed to make me want to capture everything that I saw. Be it the view to the school or the little girl herself.
When walked through the little forest, she made so many stops to see things, be it mushroom, plants, worms, just anything. I really loved all the morning walk sessions to the school during the -ber months in spite of the cold weather.
Unlike one in London, school trip here is far from scenic. But, the car conversation has always been more interesting and intriguing that they givesome aches in my heart and brain sometimes.
“Do you know?” That is her signature silence breaking once the car engine was starting and she started talking and facts throwing about everything.
Or,
“I have a question”.
Usually, I take a deep breath first after this because it was mostly a-how and why question that requires more thinking before answering.
For someone who always prefers driving in silence, I keep telling myself to enjoy this as much as I can. This might be tiring to deal with sometimes, but, I am gonna miss this so much later. It will pass like so many things that I thought would last forever have passed. Once it’s gone, it’s gone.
Every time she closes the car/taxi door in the morning, then said our usual “have fun and have a nice day”, couldn’t help spelling my specific prayer,
every single day while unconsciously taking a deep breath.
Time indeed slips through my finger
Moments where I remember
She’s only five year old little girl
In a blink of an eye she turns into a niner
May Allah protects her through all the way.
Guard her in every of her actions and decisions.
Keep her safe wherever she is.
Strengthen her faith and keep her in a straight path.
Amin. Amin. Amin.
Happiest birthday, ❤️.