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A month passed and still can’t get over the dream trip. Couldn’t help posting unposted pictures of this beautiful city until now. Every corner gives the highest pleasure for your eyes, which will be forever saved in your heart.
You will never get bored in and of Paris.
Ever, I guess.
It’s been quite some times this one is saved on the draft. It is not a typical clean, straight, and easy to read itinerary. Too wordy. This one is for me to remember.
Why do I put the words on the bracket? Because, the places we chose to visit, when and where also halfly decided according to the baby. We decided to visit some places in the last minutes.
We started wandering from the very first day we set the foot in Paris. We went out twice a day daily. The morning trip was for main attractions while the afternoon one for the ones within walking distance from our appartment, or just short trip by bus.
We had a break during morning and afternoon, resting and lazing around while doing photos posting and also prayed once our jama qashar time had expired on the third day.
We went out around 8.30-9.00 until 13.00 – 14.00, had a break until ashar around 16.00-16.30, then continued wandering until maghrib, around 18.00-18.30. During our stay, daylight saving time, the changing time from autumn to winter happened, so the pray time also became an hour earlier, so was our afternoon trip.
(Half) Day 1 – afternoon trip only
11.30 : arrived at Charles de Gaulle. 14.00 : check-in, cleaning,resting. 15.30 : first wander around neighbourhood and happened to arrive at Sorbonne University. Then, we stopped by at Franprix for small groceries.
Day 2
Morning trip
9.15 : Monge Mutualité bus stop to Eiffel Tower.
We spent time around park Champ de Mars, the yard in front of Eiffel Tower taking pictures, then crossing the street and found a carousel near Pont d’Iena. Played with Langit for one round, then climbed up to Trocadero.
We proceeded to the unfamous Rue Clér where le husband wanted to see a pop up market and ended up resting in one of the cafe enjoying baguette and hot tea.
14.00 : Back to appartment
Afternoon trip
16.30 : heading to Pantheon by walk. It was close to closing time and our intention was to buy Museum Pass for visiting Louvre and Versailles on the next following days.
Museum Pass is available in almost all museums and main attractions. It is available based on the days validity, either 2 days, 4 days, or 6 days. We only bought for two days. Honestly, I halfly regreted it. 96 euros for two persons couldn’t be used effectively. I prefered use the rest of it for more food or anything else. Never mind, anyway.
From Pantheon, we were heading home and accidentally found a small book store in a smal alley where we stopped for a while. I found some interesting children pop up books. I adore pop up books and ended up went home with three of them.
We then wandered along Boulevard Saint Germain. Watching people, taking pictures, enjoying the lively Latin Quarter. I am not into crowd, but really, I love Latin Quarter. It was crowdy in a pleasant way, for me. Listening the noise of people talking French, I love that sound!
Day 3
Morning trip
8.45 : Heading to Jardin Tuilleries and Musée du Louvre
We took a breath and wandered aroun Jardin Tuilleries for a while. Rows of autumn trees with morning sunlight were so amazing. It was quite cold and we had a smokey breath.
We arrived at Louvre and luckily skipped the long line. Not because of we had Museum Pass with us but the baby. We went straight to the middle door while having the people stared at us.
Enjoying Louvre for only two sections. Middle age and Islamic Art. I have never been into any art or museums actually. But, Louvre has quite stunning collections. We also saw the reverse triangle before heading to Printemps.
Done with Louvre, we went out and had a lunch nearby. Then, we crossed the street and waited for the bus to Notre Dame. It took quite a while until the bus came, so Langit and I enjoyed playing on the bridge while watching ferries passed by The Seine. I don’t know why, I love watching Seine. Just stood up and watched felt pretty soothing.
13.00 : Notre Dame
We lined up for this one, but of course the line wasn’t as long as Louvre. Surprisingly, there was no entrance ticket checking although we had the Museum Pass with us.
In Notre Dame, we were just having a round tour. Since I am not going to church, so I didn’t find any particular interest for it. Beside, it was pretty dark inside, so we hadn’t be able to see and actually understand well what had been shown there.
After Notre Dame, we went home by walk.
Afternoon trip
16.30 : Jardin du Luxembourg
The second Jardin for today. Jardin du Luxembourg is a large and beautiful one. Langit enjoyed playing, running, chasing bird, and she was so eager to jump to the pond where some ducks were enjoying their afternoon. We stayed there until the gate almost closed at 18.00.
Day 4
Morning trip
8.10 : heading to Chateau de Versailles.
It was Saturday morning and we had planned in advance to go north west to Versailles. Versailles is located outside Paris and we needed to take RER C train to get there. We catched the 8.30 bus from Clunny La Sorbonne metro station.
RER train is above my expectation. I thought it is just like KLIA express. But, it turned out bigger and more spacious. It is a double decker train. For departing trip, we chose the below seats while chosed the upper ones for return. The train was quite empty. The fare is slightly higher than metro. For return tickets, we paid 14 euros for 2 persons.
Versailles is one that I was really eager to visit. I read a lot about it, had it pictured in my head about how beautiful it is. Many forums said although the line would be quite long, it would be worth the time doing it. So, I was so full of hope.
Sadly, it was only one third came true. On that Saturday, it was pretty full. The line was quite tolerable, but not the tourists. Specifically, those pretty loud, annoying large group of tourists from China. There were a lot of them, liked taking selfies in almost every pictures, and really, so unpleasant. I skipped rooms where I saw a bunch of them inside. We went around to the King’s room and the main palace. It was surely beautiful. We skipped the park since the museum pass didn’t include the park. Another 9 euro per person is needed to enter the park. Thank you, 18 euros can be saved for a good lunch.
It was colder in Versailles than Paris. So, we finished the main palace, rested for a moment in one of the benches while sipping hot chocolate and sandwich we brought, then went back to metro station for another RER train riding to Paris.
10.30 : back from Versailles and heading to Centre Pompidou
This one was my husband’s idea knowing our museum pass would be expired this day. I was quite against it since I knew that none of us were really into art, let alone modern art. When we saw the queue, I was getting more uninterested. So, we canceled and just wandered around the area while searching places for lunch. We ended up having an outdoor lunch on.
13.00 : Back to the apartment
Afternoon Trip
16.30 : Shakespeare Company and street musician watching around Notre Dame.
Shakespeare Company had been one of a must visit for me and le husband for a different reason. I am Before trilogy shipper and this book store is the place where Jesse and Celine meet again in Before Sunset. While le husband’s reason is the book store is where Hemingway published his first book.
The book store is very small. There was a short queue in front of its door because the number people inside is being limited. We didn’t line up. Next to the book store, it has the cafe. We planned to sit and enjoy some coffee, but it was full.
So, we walked nearby and decided to enjoy the almost evening in one of the bridge with Notre Dame view, watching street musician, sitting on the bench,eating chocolate, and enjoying the sunny autumn breeze.
Doing merely those simple things, in a place I have been longing for long time, made my heart so full.
18.00 : stopped by at Mason George Larnicol Macarons.
On the way home, we stopped by to buy our first macarons in Paris. We once wanted to buy Ladurée in Versailles. But, it was too expensive and we couldn’t buy it for one or two pieces. We had to buy a pack of eight for 16 euros. Olala, c’etait trop chér pour nous. Two euros for a small macaron, I’d rather go for two pieces of small croissants.
When we passed George Larnicol, it was quite full and the writing on the glass wal said we could buy one or two and it costed only 0,7 euro per piece. Ouiiii, trés bon!! I ended up buying eight and paid 5,6 euros for them. One third from Ladurèe’s. The best part was, they were all good. All flavors were really good. Coffee, chocolate, lemon, and strawberry.
The baby was sleeping when we bought it, then woke up found her parents were munching something and left her behind. We planned to divide the macarons four for each of us. In fact, I ate two, while le husband and the daughter ate three.
Day 5
Morning trip
08.30 : Heading to Pére Lachaise Cemetry then proceed to Bastille.
Here is where some famous ones like Chopin, Jim Morisson were buried. It is a very large area of cemetry. The ambience was far from creepy and somehow, peaceful. The sound of bird chirping, the sunny autumn breeze were perfect. We took turn to go to certain tomb we would like to visit since the road was not suitable for stroller. The baby was sleeping. I paid my respect to Chopin while le husband paid to both Chopin and Jim Morisson.
Done with the deads, we had a very looonggggg walk to Bastille. It was Sunday, the bus was quite rare. So, le husband suggested that we better took a walk instead of waiting for the bus. What he didn’t tell me it would be a very long and far. I had my face changed from smiley to wrinkled and grumpy. I love walking in Paris. It has no sweat, make us warm, and enjoying the scenery by our own pace. No rush.
BUT, not that far. More, le husband just wanted to see a market. A Sunday market. While I was so impatient to go to… Champ Éllysées.
We didn’t stay for long in Bastille. Bought a croissant and macarons there and the baby rode on a carousel which a failed one. She cried hard once it was running. Surprised because she was there alone, without me or her dad.
11.30 : Heading to Champ Éllysées
It was one of the rare chance if metro riding. It took no line changing from Bastille to Champ Éllysées and quite a lot stops. So, it was worth the hassle climbing up and down the stairs carrying a stroller and a baby.
We arrived at the world most famous shopping avenue and got into a Disney Store to meet my sister’s request. Champ Éllyesées is such an eye candy. Famous brands are on the left and right side. The scent is surely different. But, guess it wasn’t my happy place. Too crowd and stuffy.
We had a lunch at Brioche Dorée after couldn’t stand the queue at McDonald. Honestly, I wasn’t good to have my precious euros spent on McD. Glad we found Brioche Dorée and very very satisfied with everything that we eat. Tuna sandwich, Pizza Poulet Curry, a croissant, and hot chocolate.
We walked along Champ Éllysées until we saw the grandeuse Arc de Triomph, another Paris iconic monument. It was a clear blue sky when we took some pictures of it while waiting for the bus to back home.
That day also daylight saving time happened. The hour becomes an hour late as the result of season transition from autumn to winter. It changes the prayer time too. We rushed to go home thinking zuhur time was almost up. It turned out my watch still showed the old one.
Afternoon Trip
16.15 : Monoprix second visit and shoes searching.
We spent the afternoon trip by walking along Boulevard Saint Germain looking for shoes, for me and some affordable things for the family. We stopped by at Monoprix to buy some food. Entered few shoes store but ended up with nothing. I always buy when it only suits me in everything. Other than that, I skip it.
Day 6
Morning trip
08.30 : Grande Mosquée de Paris and Jardin des Plantes
The mosque is one of our must visit. It is located in a quiet neighbourhood in 6th arrondisement. When we visited there, we were the only visitor. We did two rakaat prayer there.
Done with the mosque, Jardin des Plantes is only in another turn. I really envy these Parisiens for having lots of beautiful Jardin around their city. Jardin des Plantes, though is not as beautiful as Luxembourg and Tuileries, still, enjoyable. A group of oldies was doing a light exercise there. We strolled around slowly and stopped by the bench, sipping our hot chocolate.
10.00 : Heading to Rue de Commerce
We decided to visit Rue de Commerce in an instant, knowing the nearest metro stasion is the line that took us directly to Rue de Commerce. Such a good coincidence.
Rue de Commerce is located in 15th arrondissement where many small shops are available, which these were more suitable for us than Champ Éllysées. We strolled from one corner to the other, entered almost every shoes stores in the right and left side. Finally, le husband went home with a pair of black suede ankle boots and I brought a man’s leather sling bag for my father with a very decent price with such good quality. My shoes were still not available there.
Afternoon Trip
We didn’t go to any particular places this afternoon. We decided to sit and relax enjoying a crepe in one of an outdoor cafe nearby. Living as Parisiens felt so good.
Day 7
Morning Trip
08.30 : Heading to Galeries Lafayette and Opera
We previously wanted to see Montparnasse Tower. But, after some discussions, we decided to visit Galeries Lafayette and Opera. Galeries Lafayette is a large Department Store located in 9 arrondissement. It wasn’t opened when we arrive there and it was quite unbelievable that people were queuing in EACH of its entrance waiting for the door to be opened. Most of them were Chinese mainland tourists. It was so packed.
I decided to cross the street and looked for the shoes in a less crowded store. Then, after days of searching, it was over. I found mine on the strees across Galeries Lafayette. Done with my shoes, we still went inside the department store to look what it is like.
The famous expensive brands were all there. Another queue happened in the famous Louis Vitton store. It was enjoyable sight seeing, watching people patiently lined up just to buy things with the famous brand. No, it’s not cynical at all. For me, it was something pleasant to see since I guess I would never do such thing even if I had the ability to buy it one day. But then, who knows?;)
We decided to have lunch at the restaurant next to our apartment for our last lunch in Paris. This restaurant was almost always full whenever we passed by. We had a very delicious Chicken Basque with a very big portion there.
Afternoon trip
I had a solo walk for the afternoon trip to the souvenirs shops near Notre Dame while the baby and le husband were spending time in the park nearby. I followed them to the park when I was done.
Walking alone on the last evening in this beautiful city felt quite sentimental. It had been a very great pleasure to be there. Staying in one of the most lively yet less touristy boulevard, in a nice small apartment that we loved so much, were beyond what we expected to have.
When others say Parisiens are not friendly, we had been met with those friendly ones. Wherever we went, whatever we asked, we had met the nice ones. Really.
I wonder if my mum could see how happy I had been for those past 7 days from up there. My heart felt like bursting out of happiness.
Those twenty something years of waiting to set my foot in this city was truly paid off beyond my best expectation.
After all, dreams are meant to be executed. The feeling of having all three big dreams executed very well is incredible.
I think I can live and survive any hardships in the future by remembering these great journeys for the rest of my life.
Master degree abroad 2012 : checked.
Hajj 2012 : checked.
Paris 2016 : checked.
“And when you have a dream, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it. It’s the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting”.Paulo Coelheo, The Alchemist.
Thank you for your great conspirations, Universe.
The first intention is about writing a (good) review. However, since the service was not satisfying enough, so it will be just another story. More or less, it could be a review as well.
This trip was a bulk of reading one. The top three were about Visa, Air BnB, and … flying with a toddler. It scared me a lot whenever I thought about this bunny would spent eleven hours straight plus another four hours one being trapped up in the sky, without a proper bed.
We have never been anywhere outside Jakarta for a long period before. Being in a car for hours, I didn’t have any experiences with that. So, this trip was just like one big jump to the ocean without any proper training. So, all I could do was learnt the theories as much as I could.
Departure Flights
It was … disaster. A crazy like hell one. Ah, no, they were disasters. Both Jakarta-Istanbul Istanbul-Paris were pretty nightmare. Judging from the transit, it’s easy to guess which airline I flew with.
On the first flight, there were several babies on board. It was quite soothing. It took of on-time and for the first few minutes, it was okay. We got the bulk head seats, with configuration of 2-4-2. We got the two on the left. We had booked a bassinet, just in case, although the baby had exceeded the maximum height. We didn’t use it at all.
The baby was really restless although she was still sleeping. She cried with her eyes closed, then stopped, slept quietly, and then, it repeated again. We had been taking turn to soothe her. I breastfed her until I felt so exhausted.
While in the other hand, another problem of mine whenever flying, my skin around the mouth was irritated. It was so painful. I kept asking for water continously.
We tried any possible ways to soothe her, even by letting her slept on the plane floor since at home she always do that before we moved her to the bed. But, almost none worked. When she finally really woke up, it was quite better. At least, we could distract her to any other entertainments.
We watched some in-flight entertainments, not for long, we read books, magazines, singing, and of course, lots of breastfeeding session. At times, she was whining again and again. As far as I remembered, she didn’t sleep again until we arrived at Istanbul.
We were so relieved when the plane finally landed. We only had two hours before our connecting flight to Paris. It turned out two hours wasn’t that long. We went to the food court first. Burger King and orange juice were chosen to charge the body. We were heading to the gate right after that. When it was time to fly, I prayed so much it would end sooner.
It turned out that my pray wasn’t hard enough. The second flight was even a bigger torture for three of us. We flew with smaller plane which had 3-3 seat configurations, we didn’t get the front row ones, but the second, almost no space to move easily. Meal time was even more disastrous since we had to open the table with such small space while having a baby on our lap.
Above those all, the baby kept being so cranky and cried outloud. Worse, no other baby was on the plane. Another worse thing, we were stuck inside the plane before take off for almost more than an hour. I really wanted to cry so much and cursed this damn big bird for trapping us inside that long.
In my calculation, it would be only three hours flight since the schedule of arriving in Paris at 9.30. I really forgot about time differences between Istanbul and Paris where Paris was two hours behind Istanbul. So, it was actually five hours flight. Trust me, another two hours could have felt like the longest time of your life.
We were provided by two jars of baby food this time. The fruity one was safely landed in the baby’s tummy happily. We almost hadn’t had any sleep for another five hours. Just another shift taking turn to soothe and play with the baby. She wasn’t continously being cranky, there were sone intervals. Whenever the cry was on, those passenger eyes were fixed upon us and made us suffering more.
I couldn’t describe how grateful I was when we finally landed at Charles de Gaulle. Went through immigration and baggage pick up smoothly and safely, then finally sat in the comfortable taxi seat.
Watching the autumn scenery for the first time along the taxi riding, made me almost forget what I had just been going through for hours. We really survived first two long haul flights (disasters) and it was such achievements to be proud of.
Return Flights
Right after we settled in our apartment, we cleaned ourselves, took a bath, prayed, then did our first strolled around the neighbourhood. We did some groceries for tomorrow breakfast and bought the t-tickets for bus and metro. When we went around, I almost totally forgot and forgave everything that happened in those two flights. Things I saw by my own eyes might deserve such pain beforehand.
Fot the return flights, we chose evening flight from Paris which departed at 18.35 and it turned out a bit delayed. We learned better than the departure. We reduced our cabin carry, put the stroller to baggage, we brought spare food, chocolate, and snacks. Food was one of my baby’s soother. Food that she could eat by herself. Unlike the departure flight, I left rice behind. I brought indian curry chicken sandwich, cheese stick, small portion of rice, grapes which the baby loved a lot, almond chocolate, and cheese sticks.
When we took off, the baby was already quite sleepy. Thankfully, this time the plane was a big one with 3-3-3 seats configurations and it was quite empty. So the man next to us moved to the back where he enjoyed all three seats for himself.
When meal was distributed, the baby joined us. I didn’t know what happened, not for long after meal, she slept restlessly again and this time she felt somehow itchy because she kept rubbing her body. Some red spots were there and finally I agreed to let the husband gave the allergic medecine.
It wasa very right decision. Thanks to that, we all three had a quite good rest and sleep for some times. Until we arrived at Istanbul, the baby was still sleeping. We waited at one of the empty boarding room, where few people also had some rest. We put the baby on the chair where she could sleep as comfortable as we could afford. Until we took off again for Istanbul Jakarta flight, she was still asleep.
Didn’t really remember when she woke up. Since she had quite enough sleep, she woke up with a good mood. She ate the baby food, watched Secret Life of Pets almost a whole of it, playing here and there, snacking several times, and babling slash singing sometimes. We also changed her diaper.
The eleven hours return flight was much more bearable than the departure. The only dissapointing thing was about the interval of the meal. We were given a meal right after take off, then hot drink of ur own choices, and almond nut plus mineral water for snack. Then, it was actually sleeping time.
The sleeping time felt quite long for me and really made me hungry. When others starting to wake up, they looked quite anxious too and seemed looking if the food cart would come in short time. Le husband even proposed that we just bought it if they still didn’t give us any.
When we finally asked the FA, he said it will be given one and half an hour later. It was almost landing time and we had been starving for almost seven to eight hours. Sigh.
The baby also showed sign of hunger several times. But she still played happily. When finally the food came, they said it was breakfast and the main course was just scrambled egg. Second big sigh.
We safely arrived at Jakarta as scheduled happily, yet so tiredly.
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If I compared my readings than the actual practice, toys didn’t really give much help but just a mess for me. Video songs and games were quite helpful. But, food was the most helpful ones. The baby enjoyed food a lot, so whether during the stay in Paris and during the flight, food really calmed her.
Survived those four departure and return flights were really something for me. While we’re still dealing with the jetlag until today, I have been thinking when I will be ready again to have another experience flying with a bigger baby.
Of course not within the short time. Let’s work hard once more until the next adventure.
Ah, flying with the one that we chose was not really recommended for long haul flights. Average food, average services, not much baby friendly. Teddy bear was given once and that was it. The FAs were not that charming too. In-flight entertainment was also not extraordinary.
Before I bought the tickets, I did make comparisons to other similar airlines. But yeah, money talked. To the closest price compared to this, the difference was about more than four millions, too much to be ignored for me. We could use those four millions for something else.
So, if the budget didn’t really strict, go with Emirates or Qatar. People said Etihad is quite good too.
But, whatever I had experienced, it was the one who brought me to my dream place in the end. Couldn’t be more grateful than that.
Thank you for having and sending me, guys. Improve your service better in the future!
Writing this from home and couldn’t be happier after surviving two long haul flights and two medium ones with a toddler.
While the mood is still here, would like to write some facts about Paris that I experienced. When we talk about facts, it can’t be helped to talk about it by numbers. So, enjoy calculating a bit.
1. The taxi fare from and to Charles de Gaulle airport is fixed.
I love this one about Paris. No worries of fare watching during your trip with a taxi to and from the airport. When you stay in the right bank, it is 50 euro, while left bank 55 euro. You can give one or two euros for tips.
Expensive? For those who travel by group, it’s surely cheap.
When you go by bus and carrying large luggages, it’s around 11 or 17 euro per person. Then, from the bus stop in city centre, you either have to take a metro or bus, or taxi to reach your hotel or apartment.
When you choose a RER train, it costs very cheap, around 2 euro, but have yourself covered in sweat because you need to go underground by stairs.
Metro and bus have the same fare, it is 1,90 euro while taxi fare starts from 2,60 euro. Don’t forget about dragging your luggages here and there, climbing up and down the stairs. It’s another intangible cost.
2. Buying t-tickets for your transport saves a lot than having a pass. Paris Pass is quite pricey and overpriced, for me. Glad we didn’t buy it and bought t-tickets instead.
We bought two bundles of two t-tickets at first (each bundle has 10 t-tickets). It can be used for metro and bus for the trip around Paris (1-20 arrondossement). Bus ticket can be bought inside the bus with different fare. With t-ticket you pay 1,90 while direct purchase is 2,00 euro.
For seven days going around Paris, we spent buying 4 bundles of t-tickets. One bundle costs 14,10. So, total of four is (only) 56, 40 euro (two adults).
Compared if you buy Paris Visite Pass : for five days pass, covering zone 1-5, it costs 63,50 per adults.
So, don’t bother buying it. Use the money for enjoying any other things about Paris. Like buying the nice macarons, croissants, or a pair of french made shoes.
3. Big croissants cost around 1,2-1,7 euro while the small ones cost around 0,50- 0,60 euro. I’d rather go to the big one.
4. Paris two last numbers of zip code show the arrondissement. 75001 means it is in the 1st, 75017 means it is the 17th arrondissement.
5. Seen lots of electric car while they were being charged and hadn’t seen any singles gas station during the stay. Don’t know why.

6. You will always being greeted and better to say ‘Bonjour’ almost everywhere. Bus, store, cafe, office, attraction places, just everywhere. While saying ‘ Au Revoir’ is only when you have the chance while parting.
7. Everyone has their own way to enjoy the trip. Since we enjoy food a lot, most of our euros go to good food. In fact, after calculating the expenses, 65 percent of them go to restaurants and… Monoprix. Champ Éllysées and Galeries Lafayette didn’t tempted us. Monoprix food section did a lot.
8. I don’t know about others’ experiences, but I really have a very good experience with Parisiens. The officers, the taxi and bus drivers, the people. Wearing hijab is totally indifferent. They answer your questions nicely, serve you well at the stores, cafes, and restaurants, helping me to hold the doors, and all those kind little gestures I really love.
Maybe, just maybe, it was because I traveled with a cute little toddler who had been attracting others to play. Or another maybe, was because I spoke the language. Or, if I can just suggest another possibility, it was simply an answer to my pray.
I always pray one thing whenever I am facing new things, new places, or new people : for me to meet the kind ones. Those who won’t do any harms to me (and my companion).
When I went for postgrad, I asked to be given a good roommate. I had two, and their kindness were really beyond my expectation. During hajj, I asked to be given the good ones who shared the room with me and my mom. I was given a pair of mother and daughter like me and my mom who were very considerate and kind. Then, Paris… was even more surprising. We’re saved from any pickpockets, scammer, even met too many kind people during the trip.
Well, that is all just my guess about this fact. But, meeting those kind parisiens meant a lot for me.
Still try to remember more, but up to now, that is all.
Bissoux!
This trip arguably is one of the most magnifique one I have ever had. I couldn’t express how much grateful I have been for the past four months, more, for the past eight days I spend here.
I enjoyed every steps, every little and big things I saw, every scent I smelt, every words in the language I spoke, every single things happened during the journey in this city.
There were no easy way to achieve all three dreams. All three had its own hardships, cruel twists, rocky roads, but then, they were all paid off once I was living it.
After two years of searching the possible and suitable universities to pursue master degree abroad, Allah sent me to the closest one from home. He knew I couldn’t survive being too far from home for a long period. A part of my heart left in Kuala Lumpur and Selangor. First dream : checked.
Although I have visited Mecca and Medina twice before, it was on another level when you did it for Hajj. Started saving nine years before the journey, confirmed to be going five years later, and finally went Hajj four years ago (please do the math on your own). A greatest journey, to the greatest place in the world, to the centre of a human’s heart. Second dream, Mecca for hajj : checked.
The last one has the longest waiting, the furthest distance, the hardest and lots of requirements, the most expensive expenses, and the least help resources available.
Once the ticket confirmly booked, the longer path was waiting until the end of the tunnel. Everything was planned without any experts, no wonder though sometimes it was frustrating, it also felt very satisfying. We absolutely did everything from the scratch.
When the steps touched every corner of this city, saw all those places by the very own eyes, walked around and got lost until the smallest alleys, found a hidden gem where few euros where spent, met the very charming parisiens, greeted by ‘bonjour’ and saying ‘au revoir’ almost everywhere, the heart couldn’t stop crying and spelling thank you for finally having this dream came true.
Re-read this post and smiled. The one and only Paris for the third dream, in the most favorite season : beautifully checked.
I have three big dreams and had all those three checked greatly.
Half of me now really can rest in peace. I am completely done with my self.
The other half part is about passing and teaching this ability to my daughter.
The ability to live diligently and have good things to pursue, work very hard to make it happen, patiently waiting for the result, stand up again and again after failures, and believe that she will really get there one day.
I am what I am now because of what my parents showed me. Nothing less. There will be no dreams at all without them taught me.
I praised Allah endlessly for fulfiling all those three and thanked both my parents whole-heartedly for raising me to the best possible path one could ask for and having their enourmous support to achieve whatever their children want to pursue.
Thank you for such a great and pleasant journey with all the lessons, Paris. I absolutely have a nice stay.
I’ll see you again, one day.
À bientot!




Glad to be back home.





Automne à Paris, le 26 Octobre de 2 Novembre 2016.







I believe the first real trip will always stay in one’s heart. So will Paris for this lucky baby. She will definitely come back here one day, Insya Allah.
https://www.airbnb.fr/rooms/6903920
Air BnB adalah hal kedua setelah visa yang saya baca, baca, baca ( tiga kali biar mantep seperti perintah Al-Qur’an) dengan sangat intense. Setelah tiket dipesan, pencarian Air BnB langsung dimulai.
Sebelumnya, mungkin perlu sedikit digambarkan tentang Paris. Paris terbagi dalam dua daerah besar, right bank dan left bank yang mana keduanya ini dipisahkan oleh Sungai Seine. Daerah right bank lebih banyak turis dibanding left bank. Menurut bacaan saya, biaya hidup juga sedikit lebih mahal. Banyak atraksi dan tempat terkenal Paris letaknya di right bank seperti Eiffel Tower, Louvre, Arc de Triomphe, Bastille, Musée d’Orsay, dan masih banyak lagi.
Selain dibagi ke dua area besar, Paris juga terbagi ke dalam 20 area kecil yang disebut arrondisement. Pembagiannya adalah sebagai berikut : 1,2,3,4, 8,9,10,11,12, 16,17,18,19,20 arrondissement yang terletak di right bank, sedangkan 5,6,7, 13,14,15 arrondissement terletak di left bank.
Ada beberapa arrondissement yang lebih dikenal dengan nama khusus seperti Le Marais (4th arr), Batignolle ( 17th arr), Belleville (20th arr), Bastille (10th arr).
Awal pencarian Air BnB dimulai dari harga. Cari yang ngga terlalu mahal dan yang keluar di daftar kamar Air BnBnya adalah penginapan rumah atau apartemen yang letaknya cukup jauh dari pusat kota, seperti di 17,18,19,20 arr.
Liat ada beberapa yang menarik, sempet hubungin tuan rumahnya dan diberi pra persetujuan permohonan, tapi akhirnya ngga jadi diambil setelah baca lagi kalau tinggal di daerah yang cukup jauh dari pusat kota tidak terlalu menguntungkan. Banyak waktu terbuang hanya untuk nunggu bis atau metro.
Pencarian tahap kedua terus dilakukan dengan memfilter arrondisement yang dituju. Pilihan kedua ini adalah antara di 9,10,11,12, masih di right bank. Sengaja ngga cari diantara 1-4 supaya ngga terlalu turis banget ngga rame, dan ngga mahal. Ketemu beberapa, masuk wishlists, tapi ngga banyak yang saya hubungi hostnya.
Satu yang pasti saya jelaskan ke semua tuan rumah yang saya hubungi adalah bahwa saya akan bepergian dengan anak kecil dua tahun. Tidak semua menerima anak-anak. Di peraturan rumah kadang ada yang sudah mencantumkan tidak sesuai untuk anak usia 2-12 tahun. Jadi, selain area, filter utama yang saya gunakan di pencarian adalah terbuka bagi keluarga dan anak.
Selain filter, jumlah foto yang tersedia juga menentukan. Ada tuan rumah yang hanya mencantumkan tiga foto. Saya ngga tertarik biarpun harganya mungkin oke. Ada juga yang sampe 20an foto, bahkan 45! Semakin detil semakin enak. Jadi kita tau apa yang akan didapat.
Setelah beberapa lama, dan sampai akhirnya fix dipesan, pencarian Air BnB saya disempitkan di daerah 5,6,7, dan 15 arr. Kenapa? Karena dekat Grande Mosque de Paris yg terletak di 6 arr. Pikiran saya adalah akan lebih mudah cari makanan halal (yang ternyata setelah mengunjungi Grande Mosque, ngga terlalu bener juga).
5,6,7 juga terletak dekat Sungai Seine dan Notre Dame. Cita-cita saya pengen nongkrong dan bengong dekat Sungai Seine sambil liat Notre Dame. Alhamdulillah kesampaian.
Kalau 15 kenapa? Nah, saya pernah baca satu artikel, di 15 ini ada salah satu jalan yang namanya Rue de Commerce yang merupakan jalan penuh pertokoan kecil dengan harga yang ngga semahal kalo belanjanya di Champ Éllysées. Makanya saya agak ngotot cari disini. Ketemu beberapa tapi ternyata belum rejeki.
Setelah visa disetujui, beberapa hari kemudian akhirnya satu apartemen di Rue Cardinal Lemoine dipesan. Dari fotonya cukup oke, lantai dua, dekat jalan besar, banyak pertokoan, dekat stasiun metro, cukup oke dengan harga 650rb/ malem.
Setelah fix dipesan, saya mulai baca secara intensif tentang area ini. Ada satu yang saya kurang sreg dari Apartemen ini, hostnya ngga ada review. Sama sekali. Jadi agak khawatir juga sebenernya. Waktu juga udah makin dekat. Daftar wishlists semakin banyak yang tidak tersedia, sedangkan harga makin mahal juga.
Beberapa kali saya coba cari alternatif. Tapi ngga ada yang terlalu sreg banget. Ntah kenapa persaaan ada yang ganjel aja sama yang udah dipesan.
Dan, benar aja.
Seminggu sebelum tanggal keberangkatan, hostnya bilang ngga bisa nerima kita karena dia lagi bermasalah sama pemilik apartemennya. Ini pun kita tau karena kebetulan pocket wifi yang kita pesan harus dianter ke rumah. Jadi, perlu nomer kotak suratnya.
Waktu kita tau ini sudah jam 9 malem dan betul-betul panik. Rasanya ngga bisa mikir. Semua yang tersisa udah diluar kemampuan. Saya sambil komat-kamit baca doa terus ngga berenti nyari sampe jam satu pagi.
Hampir semua yang keluar di list harganya di atas sejuta dan itu bener-bener di luar budget dan kemampuan banget. Bisa sih ngutang pake kartu kredit, tapi saya ngga suka banget ngutang buat hal kaya gini. Abis pergi bayar tagihannya bikin ngga semangat.
Mungkin Allah itu ngambil sesuatu dari kita karena mau ganti yang lebih baik. Setelah ntah berapa puluh iklan diklik, tiba-tiba saya liat satu yang harganya masih masuk akal, di area yang saya mau, dan punya sekitar 8-10 review yang semunya bagus.
Langsung hubungin hostnya, langsung disetujui dan ngga sampe setengah jam, tempat baru terpesan. Baru bisa tidur.
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Pertama kali sampe di Boulevard Saint Germain, super happy. Liat cafe-cafe berjejeran, supermarket buat grocery, toko-toko kecil, apartemen cantik, bangunan-bangunan tua, ngga berenti senyum sendiri.
Sampe apartemen, bangunanya oke. Pintu masuknya berlapis. Tempat yang kita pesan di lantai enam. Satu kekurangan kecilnya adalah lift yang super kecil. Maksimal muat tiga orang dan cuma bisa berdiri lurus. Jadi, waktu bawa koper, saya dan Pak dokter ngga bareng. Karena ngga muat bawa koper gede sama orang. Biarpun kecil, tapi liftnya berfungsi dengan baik.
Masuk ke dalam kamar, semua terlihat rapi dan persis kaya di semua fotonya. Kalau menurut orang (sangat) kecil, menurut saya pas banget. Semua yang kita perlu ada disini. Terutama kita perlu ruang yang ngga banyak barang dan bikin kita beres-beres karena bayi yang suka geratak;)).
Di dalam kamar ini ada dua tempat tidur, satu double, satu single, dan yang okenya bukan sofa bed. Tapi tempat tidur beneran. Umumnya, sepanjang kita cari apartemen, kebanyakan pakenya sofa bed, bukan tempat tidur.
Ada lemari yang cukup besar, dapur kecil dengan dua gas listrik, pemanas air, coffee maker, tempat cuci piring, kulkas kecil dan peralatan masak lengkap. Meja makan lipat dan kursi tersedia juga. Kamar mandinya kecil dan bersih. WC, shower, wastafel, tentu semua dengan air panas.
Lampu tersedia hanya di tempat tertentu. Dua lampu neon di atas kompor listrik, dua lampu baca di masing-masing tempat tidur. Tidak ada lampu utama yang di tengah. Tapi, ternyata sangat menguntungkan. Jadi, kita hanya pake yang kita perlu. Karena ruangannya juga kecil, jadi ngga terlalu ngaruh ada lampu tengah atau ngga.
Laurent, orangnya yang mengurus apartemen ini, sangat oke (ganteng), respon cepat, dan sangat membantu. Kalo ada yang bilang Paris ngga ramah turis, Laurent orang pertama yang matahin itu. Kenapa pertama? Karena setelahnya saya ketemu berpuluh-puluh orang yang matahin pernyataan itu.
Secara keseluruhan, saya puas sekali tinggal disini. Cocok buat keluarga dengan satu anak kecil. Kalo dua anak, bisa juga mungkin, tapi ruang geraknya makin terbatas.
Jadi, kesimpulannya 42 Boulevard Saint Germain ini cocok buat yang ngga suka daerah terlalu turis (turis ada disini tapi ngga banyak), dekat beberapa stasiun metro, dilewatin banyak bis ke atraksi utama Paris, kalo malem tenang dan ngga berisik (sama orang mabuk, seperti waktu saya di Inggris), dan menyediakan semua yang dibutuhkan. Ngga lebih dan ngga kurang.
Kalo untuk foto, boleh liat di link paling atas. Karena kalo yang aktual, whoa, bikin ngga nafsu karena berantakan.
Semoga membantu (kalo ada yang membutuhkan).