Posted in Langit Senja, Thoughts, Travel

Trips to be Remembered

I had been dreaming of setting my feet in Paris for more than 20 years and finally checked the list in my 30s.

All the road to make it happen, all the price paid for just a single dream.

The little girl is not even ten and has been to this lovely city twice. Without really knowing and understanding what it took to get here (and many other places she has been to).

There were times when I asked myself, “What would she become of being raised in a situation where such a hard-earned thing like going abroad feels like a regular thing to do?”

Something that both of her parents ever had growing up.
Maybe once every ten years or more, but not as often as we have been (by my personal standard, this is way too often).

Raising a human being is a tricky business indeed. Less is more, I agree, especially for the material things. Children care and need more of our presence or attention than the literal money we earn.

But, the short period spent with them is another thing that should be considered. When one thinks 18 years are long, this is wrong. We even have less than that to teach and transmit everything we want to. There’s an expiration date for parents to have significant influence in their children’s life.

Traveling is about maximizing such a ‘short’ period together, giving the most important education outside the classrooms and Zoom meetings, to transmit as many values as possible I wish her to have and hold. This period is like preparing her for the upcoming trips she would have later, hoping she has enough resources before she finally takes off with her life journey insya Allah.

I don’t have the slightest regret of every single trip we took her to. No matter how difficult they were. No matter how much we spent for them. Money (always) returns, the time won’t.


(This sounds like I am trying to convince myself).

She might not really ‘care’ about all those trips as much as I do. She might appreciate less fascinating things than all the places we’ve been to (like more time playing toca boca than walking around the city alleys under the sun with me). She might not remember all these things as much as I did, but hopefully, there would be something beneficial later from all those journeys we had, which I don’t know what. Yet.

Perhaps, a bit of good-to great-memories that made her smile when life gets tough is more than enough.

Shadow wefie in Paris within seven years of difference.

Such an intense trip deserves more rants. Guess this is the last one.

Posted in Langit Senja, Life happens, Thoughts, Travel

Behind The Scenes of Travelin’

Scene 1

This trip looks good and perfect in pictures but quite a mess in the structure.

So far, the most twisted one among the history of family trips.

From the messy itinerary,
a week journey with seven flights rally,
Long delay made us sprint in Abu Dhabi,
Denied check in when we’re fully ready,
Paid a hefty sum of money for the tiny mistake I didn’t see,
Ran back to the airplane after realizing I left a bag with passports, handphones, and money below the handrest in the seat forty,
Another sprint session in Abu Dhabi,
during queuing for boarding,
ran between terminal one and three,
to fetch another bag I left
when we checked out at two thirty.

Those were crazy, honestly.

But, I also felt being saved for countless time while dealing with those difficulties.
It felt surreal when the plane touched the ground back to this city yesterday afternoon at three thirty,
We were wasted yet,gratefully healthy.

This writing finished yesterday at ten forty,
all the luggages were already returned to its place safely,
while the washing machine was singing happily.
My clean laundry was ready.

Scene 2

We might have lots of miss and twists, but we got it easy when it comes to traveling with this little girl buddy. It might be hard to believe when I said we had zero tantrums since she was a baby.

They said traveling is one of the truest test of character.
If it is true, then, she must have passed with flying colors.
Much calmer than her mother,
while dealing with so many irregulars,
Where everything was so unfamiliar.

I have no control of what she would become of despite all the best efforts that had been done, but I hope, she would thrive and becomes an adult who deals with lots of uncertainties in life like she does with everything that traveling brings when she was a child.

The best traveling buddy parents could ask for

Scene 3

Marriage doesn’t have to be ideal,
The most important thing it should be functional.

I believe, so does in traveling.

You might need one with the same vision, but the other important thing, you also need a company with different functions.

For every little details I am quite good at (although it becomes debatable in this trip), I get a good one who covers for the big picture that I am quite lack of and I am beyond grateful to be blessed with such traveling partner.

If you want to go fast, go alone, if you want to go far, go together”. African Proverb

Last but not least,

Trip observations.
Posted in Favorite things, Places, Travel

Bonjour, Emily!

So, after four days in Porto, we started our journey back home, with another brief transit, in the one and only,

Paris.

Despite the scorching hot weather with lots of people, Paris never ceases to make me smile.

I loved everything I saw and smelled. The buildings, the boulangerie, the creperie, the small alleys, so little time yet so many things to see.

We stayed near the airport and went to the city by the metro. When we were there in 2016, we mostly traveled by bus because it was easier with strollers to carry around.

During the precious short visit, we only had few main itineraries :

– Visited the Institute Curie for the little girl.

– Bought a pan for the doctor.

– Stopped by chez Emily and Monoprix for me.

Since all of them are within walking distance and few metro ridings, we covered all of them within few hours spent in Paris (minus the sleeping).

Paris is always a good idea, just like Audrey Hepburn said, which I totally agree. But, spending some time during summer in Paris, bon, Paris en été, ce n’est pas pour moi. C’est chaud et trop bondé.

Glad it was only short yet still lovely.

Bonjour, Emily!
Ça va, Gabriel?
Posted in Favorite things, Life happens, Places, Thoughts, Travel

Adagio in Porto!

It’s been a very long ride until we finally safely arrived in this trip main destination.

I didn’t have any expectations about this city. No idea what it would be.

I rarely fall in love with the first sight. But, Porto got me right.

Less than one hour set my feet in this city, I fell in love in an instant. This city is beyond charming.

It had been 48 hours without having a proper meal, it served us with a set of Portugese home made meal from a tiny homey local restaurant across our apartment. It was pumpkin soup and red bean rice with cod fish. I really wanted to cry while sipping the soup. It was the best meal I had in this trip.

We stopped by for the light groceries nearby then returned to the apartment. When we arrived, our room was ready.

We bought Andante card for the bus and metro at Sao Bento station. Our first visit in the afternoon was Ribiera. Sitting by Duoro river and listening to street musician. The little girl seemed too tired after countless flight and airports transfer to do anything else, so she just slept on the bench by the river.

We stayed for 4 days, the first two we went together, while the other two, the doctor attended the course which became the main reason we visited Porto, so me and the little girl explored the city on our own.

Porto is fascinating. I love almost everything about it. It might be not as neatly ordered or filled with stunning beauty like some of other citites in Europe. It is more like beautiful mess with the right measure.

Couldn’t help taking too many pictures of murals and facades. We also stayed in the street of art where there are lots of small galleries.

We basically ticked all the a must see places. Sunset in Jardim de Morro, Mercado de Bolhao, Santa Catarina, Livraria Lello, Cedofeita, Jardin de Palacio, Natural History museum in Universiti of Porto. But, the best one about the city is its charming alleys.

For someone who loves walking, being lost in Porto alleys were the highlights of my staying in this city. Just going in and out aimlessly made me happy.

I love how it felt safe to walk there. I reclaimed my solo traveling in between time spent together and it was so refreshing. There were those times when this trip worth all the hassles been through to get here.

Their bus card called Andante . In music, Andante means a tempo in walking pace. It’s funny how it fits the description of their city. Four days spent in Porto, I feel like life was running in adagio., which means a slow tempo.

Beauty. Safety. Walkability. Porto has set the bar too high for introduction to south Europe. It’s underrated yet highly recommended city to visit.

The city’s postcard view
One of the most beautiful bookstores in the world. Paid entrance for €5, which could be used for buying a book here.
One of the most beautiful Mcd in the world, said the article
Sunset from Jardim de Morro
Sardine is a serious bussiness here
Alma in front of Capela de Almas
Mercado Bolhao

Muita Obrigado, Porto!

Posted in Thoughts, Travel

Till Next Time, Amsterdam.

Amsterdam was involuntarily included in the itinerary because of what happened here.

A few months back, some of my weeks were spent by constantly fixing the itinerary. Amsterdam made it more complicated. Based on my research, it wasn’t compulsory, BUT, if you’re being asked in the first border you entry and you couldn’t prove you would travel to the visa issued country, then, you might lose bigger and more than what you can pay by playing safe.

I didn’t only read a bulk of articles. I asked around almost ten travelers on social media, about this case. I also asked travel agents who do the visas. It was 70-30. Seven said it might be fine but just be prepared, the rests said it was too risky.

Up until a week before, I hadn’t bought the ticket for the new itinerary, because of the price was too high for one way trip. I was still thinking, we could just try our luck by leaving Amsterdam behind. There were actually lots of alternatives, much cheaper ones, BUT, with another transit and less reliable airlines. A two hours flight becomes five? I didn’t think we could handle another transit. Flying with unreliable airlines after constant airport moving in 48 hours? I didn’t think that was wise. Train wasn’t doable this time. Bus was available, but 8 hours in a bus? I wasn’t available for that.

I finally clicked the payment button and forgot the rest.

It’s hard to a judge a city where you only spent 6 hours went around and few hours of sleeping.

But, from what I saw, I wasn’t impressed like the first time I set my feet in Paris.

A brief stop was fine. Maybe next time, Amsterdam

Hoping to stay longer and learn how the happiest kids in the world do, according to the research.
Compulsory Amsterdam selfie
The city where the cyclists rule
The city canals
The journey, not the arrivals, matters, said TS Elliot.

What happened in the first EU Border we landed? Safely passed without a single question. No passport checking anymore after that, not even bother to check whether we had the visa or not from the colors of our passports. In my case, no one cares whether we stop by in Amsterdam or not. Even in our main destination, no more passport control. What I understood before, it wasn’t a problem if you travel through the land, but, by plane might be different. It turned out if you travel around Schengen countries, you won’t through any immigration anymore after the first one. Only the security check.

Did I regret the decision? Not really, another review post would do.

If anyone ask me whether they should take the risk by not traveling to the visa issuing country, my answer would be :

Handle your own risk. Basically, it’s not wrong since your visa is valid to enter all those countries . But, if we truly can, let’s show some courtesy to the one who gives the entry.

Posted in Travel, Visa

(Drama) Mengurus Visa Schengen dari VFS Belanda Jakarta

Terakhir kali mengurus visa Schengen kurang lebih 7 tahun lalu itu di TLS Contact via Prancis..

Sebenarnya di tahun 2020, sempat urus visa Schengen juga di London buat ke Paris. Sudah submit dokumen dan paspor, tapi akhirnya semua dibatalkan karena pandemi. Setelah 2020, traveling ke Eropa terasa jauh. Tapi karena vakum traveling jauh, alhamdulillah rejekinya bisa dipakai untuk dua hal penting yang sudah diniatkan sejak lama.

Awal tahun ini, tiba-tiba ada kesempatan untuk urus Schengen sekali lagi. Kali ini urus via Belanda, karena ngga sengaja.

Cari tanggal appointment Schengen sekarang susahnya luar biasa.

Tujuan utama trip kali ini adalah nemenin Pak Dokter yang ada short course di Porto. Jadi, harusnya lewat VFS Portugal. Setelah pencarian yang ekstensif, satu-satunya maskapai yang langsung ke Portugal (transit di ibukota negara maskapainya dulu tentunya) itu hanya maskapai negara Turki.

Berdasarkan pengalaman 7 tahun lalu, naik maskapai tersebut kurang pas. Selain karena durasi flightnya yang panjang, sekarang pun masih dan makin ngga pas liat harganya yang kok mahal banget buat ke Porto. Sebenarnya maskapai lain juga ada tapi harus dua kali transit yang total lama perjalanannya bisa dua hari dengan waktu transit yang panjang.

Setelah berhari-hari atau mungkin sampai sekitar dua tiga minggu dengan pencarian dan perhitungan yang intens, akhirnya diputuskan rutenya akan menjadi Jakarta-Paris naik maskapai timur tengah yang transit di Abu Dhabi. Keluar dulu, transit di CDG 8 jam, lalu dengan maskapai Eropa langsung dilanjutkan Paris-Porto di hari yang sama. Ini adalah pilihan yang paling ideal dengan harga dan waktu yang masuk akal.

Ternyata, saat ini, sangat direkomendasikan buat cari dulu tanggal appointmentnya yang sesuai rencana keberangkatan, baru fokus cari tiket dan lain lain. Di sinilah awal semua drama.

Ketika cari tanggal appointment, berkali-kali buka website tulisannya selalu tidak tersedia. Tipsnya ngga ada selain coba cek secara berkala. Kadang tiba-tiba ada satu dua tanggal yang kosong. Rencana awalnya hanya booking buat Pak Dokter. Tapi, setelah beberapa lama, kayanya agak basi kalo ke Eropa sendiri (☺️).

Ketika tanggal appointment Pak dokter sudah aman, mulai cari lagi tanggal buat saya dan anak saya. Berhari-hari ngga dapet, sampai akhirnya ada kosong satu hari sebelum jadwalnya Pak dokter. Langsung booking biarpun yang tersedia hanya premium service yang di luar jam kerja.

Setelahnya agak lega karena tanggal udah aman. Saat itu masih awal Maret sedangkan tanggal perjanjian masih belasan April akhir. Saya pastikan di dashboard akun VFS udah tercantum nomer referensi untuk perjanjian di dua tanggal tersebut. Saya cek email dan berpikir tumben ini ngga masuk ke email. Tapi ya sudah, selama di dashoard ada formnya dan jelas sampai bukti bayar harusnya ngga masalah.

Jeda waktu dipakai buat isi-isi form Schengen. Formnya ngga terasa seribet pertama kali urus.

Kayanya pernah nulis setiap perjalanan yang dilalui itu pasti ada twistnya. Saya inget banget satu malam abis maghrib nyelutuk ke Pak Dokter :

“Tumben nih kayanya ngurus Schengen aman”.

Tanpa berlama-lama, besok paginya langsung semesta bekerja buat kasih pelajaran untuk kesombongan yang terucap di mulut.

Besok pagi, saya iseng cek ke akun VFS yang dipakai buat daftar perjanjian. Udah lama banget ngga cek. Waktu buka dashboard, jantung langsung berdebar karena di dashboard cuma ada satu appointment, punya Pak Dokter. Sedangkan punya saya ngga ada. Panik banget. Langsung refresh berkali-kali tetap ngga ada.

Salah satu hal yang saya syukuri adalah saat pertama kali keluar surat jadwalnya di dashboard, saat itu juga saya langsung download dan simpen di laptop. Karena tanpa ada itu, saya tidak bisa membuktikan sama sekali kalo saya sudah daftar, dapat tanggal dan bayar. Hari itu juga langsung saya datang ke VFS. Alhamdulillah lagi, VFS ini deket banget sama tempat tinggal hanya 10 menit naik angkot.

Pagi itu jadi pagi yang super gelisah. Saya antri buat minta info di VFS Portugal. Saya masih duduk nunggu sampai saya liat satu aplikasi yang nomer referensinya berawalan POR. Sedangkan punya kami berawalan NLD. Serangan panik yang kedua.

Makin panik ketika ada satu orang bapak-bapak mau ke VFS Jerman yang mana surat referensinya berawalan GER. Di sini saya makin yakin kalo ada yang salah.

Saya langsung tanya ke petugasnya tentang kode ini dan ternyata benar kalo lewat Portugal referensinya diawali dengan POR. Lemes banget.

Saya coba telp ke helpline embassy Portugal tanya kenapa websitenya buat bikin perjanjian diarahinnya ke Belanda, padahal saya inget betul saya milih Portugal.

Ternyata, saya salah alamat web. Harusnya saya masuk ke http://www.vfsglobal.com. Dari sana baru pilih mengajukan dari mana dan mau ke mana. Baru akan diarahkan ke VFS masing-masing.

Makin lemes lagi.

Tapi, ngga ada waktu buat lemes lama-lama. Langsung susun rencana ulang. Saya buka VFS Portugal setiap hari berkali-kali. Ngga ada satupun tanggal yang kosong. Pernah akhirnya ada slot kosong di bulan Juli yang mana ngga ada gunanya juga karena short coursenya di bulan Juni.

Kenapa ngga lewat TLS Contact Paris? Itu lebih parah antrinya.

Saya langsung email VFS Belanda buat memastikan surat referensi saya ini valid. Selama kurang lebih 10 hari, saya seperti teman pena dengan VFS. Balas-balasan email non stop. Tapi saya ngga peduli.

Sebenarnya ada satu plot twist kecil lagi sebelum ini. Di surat tanggal perjanjian, saya baru sadar kalo nomer paspor anak saya kelebihan. Waktu itu saya sudah langsung email bahwa ini harusnya ngga jadi masalah. Alhamdulillah ngga masalah meskipun mereka sudah ingatkan buat lebih hati-hati di pengisian formulir aplikasi visa karena akan sangat fatal akibatnya.

Balik ke pengurusan visa.

Pilihan saya waktu jadi hanya dua : berharap ada keajaiban tanggal kosong di Portugal atau ubah route perjalanan yang mana akan nambah biaya lagi.

Agak down juga waktu itu karena dapet tiket PP JKT-Paris harga promo yang oke banget. Liat gini jadi deg-degan kalo ternyata harus lewat Belanda.

(Visa Schengen bisa diurus dari negara terlama yang dikunjungi atau negara pertama kali masuk. Banyak yang bilang ngga masalah urus dari mana aja. Ngga ke negara tersebut juga bisa. Tapiii, itu sangat beresiko. Kalo di imigrasi ditanya kenapa ajukan visa dari negara tersebut tapi tidak ada bukti kalo akan ke sana, urusannya bisa panjang dan kami milih ngga ambil resiko itu).

Makin mendekati tanggal perjanjian, hampir dipastikan sudah ngga mungkin bisa urus dari Portugal. Jadi, saya makin fokus siapin untuk Plan B. Ubah itinerary jadi lewat Belanda.

Beda sekali perasaan urus visa kali ini. Sudah ngga kehitung berapa kali coba otak-atik real itinerary. Bikin simulasi pilihan itinerary di excel beserta biayanya. Perubahan ini cukup makan biaya (banget). Tapi, selama ada rezekinya, yang mana semoga selalu dilapangkan (amin!), sudah dapat tanggal perjanjian yang ideal sesuai waktu keberangkatan jadi satu hal yang uang juga ngga bisa bayar.

Ada satu lagi plot twist yang tiba-tiba muncul : Pemerintah mengumumkan cuti bersama Idul Fitri maju ke tanggal 18 April. Sedangkan tanggal perjanjian kami sehari dan dua hari setelahnya.

Pengen nangis banget waktu tau itu Jumat malam, jadi harus nunggu sampai Senin untuk nelpon ke VFS tentang hal ini.

Meskipun minggu itu bukan long weekend, itu terasa jadi long weekend terpanjang buat saya.

Di periode ini, doa saya makin panjang. Apalagi pas banget bulan Ramadan. Perasaan tiap hari ngga karuan. Sering berpikir, mungkin ini peringatan buat ngga jalan.

Tapi, seperti biasa, dalam periode ini juga saya jadi banyakk sekali belajar tentang hal baru. Terutama dalam mengurus visa Schengen.

Di hari Senin, jam 7.59 saya sudah standby buat telpon. Alhamdulillah lega sekali waktu mereka bilang mereka hanya tutup di tanggal merah sesuai kalendar. Jadi, tanggal perjanjian saya dan Pak Dokter aman.

Saya juga sudah mempersiapkan skenario di otak bahwa di tanggal perjanjian saya, Pak Dokter akan ikut dan di counternya saya akan tanya apa memungkinkan untuk submit sekalian. Mengingat kita satu keluarga dan Pak Dokter adalah sponsor utama trip ini, jadi penting banget buat aplikasi saya dan anak saya mengikuti aplikasi sponsor utama.

Menjelang tanggal perjanjian, setiap hari saya cek semua dokumen. Sudah ngga terhitung berapa kali saya cek formulir aplikasi setiap hari. Di formulirnya, saya putuskan buat tulis hanya ke Belanda saja. Karena jika ditulis akan mengunjungi negara Schengen lain, kita juga harus melampirkan bukti perjalanan dan penginapannya yang mana akan makin ribet lagi.

Itinerary tersebut sebenarnya agak ngga meyakinkan ya. Agak aneh menghabiskan 9 hari hanya di satu negara ketika visanya bisa banget dipakai buat ke negara lain. Jadi, di itinerary yang dilampirkan, saya tulis juga beberapa day trip ke kota lain atau kota negara lain yang terdekat dari Amsterdam seperti Brugge di Belgia. Tapi yang jelas, tanpa menginap. Jadi, ngga perlu ada lampiran bukti penginapan.

Ini juga pertama kalinya saya apply visa dengan tiket dummy. Tiket dummy saya beli lewat http://www.dummyticket.com. Prosesnya cepat dan gampang. Kita bisa rekues juga kita mau sampai di kota tujuan itu tanggal berapa. Karena tanggal mulai visa berlaku itu bisa banget baru di hari kita sampai, sedangkan beberapa penerbangan itu sampai di hari yang sama dengan hari keberangkatan. Jadi, ngga pas. Oleh karena itu harus pastikan dengan benar kapan kita akan sampai dan keluar di dan dari area Schengen.

Pada dasarnya, semua dokumen yang kami punya cukup meyakinkan, bukti finansial cukup kuat, histori perjalanan banyak, secara matematika manusia, harusnya visanya bisa dikabulkan tanpa kendala.

Tapi, semua yang dilewati di atas buat saya makin percaya, apa sih yang iya kalo Allah bilang ngga? Pun sebaliknya.

Meskipun dua minggu tersebut perasaan saya ngga karuan dan gelisah setengah mati, saya lebih dari bersyukur karena dikasih peringatan dini. Kayanya ngga kebayang kalo saya dengan percaya dirinya datang ke VFS Portugal di tanggal perjanjian, dengan bawa dokumen tiket yang pertama kali dibeli, lalu tau bahwa itu ngga bisa dipakai karena itu perjanjian dengan VFS Belanda. Alhamdulillah itu cuma ada di bayangan. Jadi, kalo cuma disuruh belajar lagi, ayo deh. Belajar emang ngga ada yang enak.

Di tanggal perjanjian, saya udah pasrah aja. Semua yang bisa dilakukan sudah dilakukan.

Berhuhung servis yang dipilih adalah servis premium karena di luar jam kerja, pada saat kami tiba di VFS, antriannya hanya sedikit sekali. Duduk sebentar ngga berapa lama langsung dipanggil.

Setelah petugasnya cek dokumen saya, saya mulai beranikan untuk nanya apa memungkinkan kalau aplikasi Pak Dokter juga dimasukan sekarang. Petugasnya minta izin untuk ke dalam buat nanya ke atasannya. Dia kembali dengan jawaban yang diharapkan dengan catatan karena waktu perjanjian suami saya itu di jam kerja normal yang mana harganya lebih murah, kami harus bayar selisih harga untuk servis premium servis.

Sekali lagi, punya keleluasan untuk memilih jadi sebuah privilege yang harus disyukuri.

Secara garis besar, semua dokumen aman. Sempat diminta untuk buat surat pernyataan dengan tulis tangan karena di surat keterangan kerja Pak Dokter tidak tercantum nama saya dan anak. Surat ini dibuat dengan mencantumkan bahwa tujuan kami hanya untuk berlibur dan ngga akan mencari pekerjaan. Waktu itu googling on the spot juga.

Dokumen-dokumen visa lama juga semua dikembalikan, karena ngga berhubungan dengan Schengen. Jadi, yang diambil saat itu hanya fotokopi aplikasi visa Schengen dari Prancis.

Biaya visa Schengen yang kami bayarkan waktu itu sebesar Rp 1.300.000 untuk dewasa dan Rp 650.000 untuk anak-anak. Waktu ke Paris, anak saya masih gratis. Kalo ngga salah visa Schengen buat anak di bawah 6 tahun itu gratis.

Setelah pembayaran di counter kami nunggu lagi untuk biometric. Itupun ngga lama langsung dipanggil. Anak di bawah 12 tahun ngga perlu biometric.

Setelah itu, semua selesai.

Rasanya waktu itu kaya ada beban berat yang terangkat.

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Menjelang pertengahan Mei, mulai agak was-was lagi karena sama sekali belum ada kabar paspor bisa diambil. Sampai akhirnya saya lupa tanggap berapa, nomer aplikasi Pak Dokter sudah tertulis pasport is ready for collection sedangankan dua yang lainnya belom.

Mulai deh tensi naik lagi. Kerjaannya tiap hari beberapa kali sehari ngecek ngga berenti. Waktu itu Pak Dokter lagi ada konfrensi di Medan selama hampir seminggu. Tadinya kepikiran untuk nyusul, yang mana alhamdulillahnya ngga.

Waktu itu saya baru sampai rumah setelah jemput pulang sekolah, duduk di sofa, iseng cek lagi. Liat semua aplikasi tertulis pasport is ready for collection langsung berdiri tegak dan bilang ke anak saya kalo saya akan keluar lagi sebentar untuk ambil. Saat itu masih jam 2 dan masih ada 2 jam untuk pengambilan.

Untuk kesekian kalinya, saya bersyukur lagi karena tinggal di tempat yang sangat strategis. Dekat kemana-mana, angkutan umum tersedia dengan mudahnya, yang mana ke VFS ada satu angkot gratis ke sana. 15 menit kemudian sudah sampai.

Karena masih jam kerja, VFS cukup ramai dan saya nunggu cukup lama sampai akhirnya nomer antrian saya dipanggil. Pasport diserahkan, tanda tangan, dan saya langsung kembali ke kursi tunggu buat buka pasport.

Alhamdulillah semua paspor terdapat stiker visa yang diperlukan, meskipun durasinya kok ya sebentar banget (untuk effort dan biaya yang dikeluarkan). Yah, nasib jadi negara ketiga.

Begitulah pengalaman mengurus visa Schengen kali ini. Kalo tips teknik mengisi form sudah banyak di luar sana. Tip saya cuma satu :

Cari tanggal perjanjian dulu jauh-jauh hari baru urus yang lain. Cuma itu yang penting.

Semoga bermanfaat (dan menghibur).

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New Season of Traveling

It’s still hard to believe that after three years, life is slowly returning to old days, including traveling. When I thought Sydney was more than enough this year, then another trip came only few months after that.

This time, it’s way of traveling that we have never been done before. Out of initial plan.

The past few weeks and months, I felt like dealing with the same old and new me while dealing with traveling thing. I am still the same old person who is very determined and detailed in planning, but certain part is totally unrecognizable.

I always know that I am good at waiting, although the reason might not be clear. Sometimes, I am questioning myself too what I have been waiting for. Just click buy and move on to the next thing. Why torture yourself for weeks instead? But still, I just chose to suffer.

When it comes to traveling, I feel like having this different tables inside my brain about few different itineraries with their own strengths and weaknesses. Funnily, these tables were not even fixed. After weeks of feeling certain that those choices were the only way to go, suddenly, I could restart from the beginning and resetting everything again to completely different plans. It was mostly a sudden new insight that came into my mind.

The old me would have started packing right after the visa was granted, mostly two or three months beforehand, but now, up to two weeks, my luggage was still sitting nicely on the cupboard. I wasn’t so sure what I was waiting for.

Previously, I was so sure a transit it’s fine as long as the time and price fit. Then, I found the airline rating was pretty bad. So, I considered another option. When I found one that had a good rating, I was still being hesitant once again. The greedy in me wanted more.

While waiting for this, I suddenly found the price that I had been looking for consistently for weeks. Then, when I was about to type the card number, I started thinking once again. This one fitted the time and price, but with a transit.

I ended up not with the lowest I could get, but it was the best indeed.

As the date of the departure is getting closer, my anxiety is slowly rising. Pre-pandemic travel gave me excitement, but the post ones are making me more cautious. I’ve been wondering why we adult has so many fears inside? Or is it just me?

Since the first time we traveled abroad as a family, we always stay in one city for 7 days. Enjoyed the city as slow as possible (although it was also a soft translation of not having enough to afford more). But this time, we would move to three different countries in 7 days. It’s scary. I didn’t plan to, but, as always, a travel twist made us taking such options.

Well, I wish nothing but hopefully we will survive this new season of traveling safe and sound. We never know if we don’t try. Right? Please, it is.

After having a summer trip in the east, off we go for another summer trip to the west.

Bismillah. Bismillah. Bismillah.

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What Traveling Brings

First, lots of writing ideas that have been unavailable for the last few months. Been staring at the blank page often since few last months of last year and nothing came up. Traveling for a week, drafts line up in an instant.

Second, the cleanest period at home. I have this urge to clean everything whenever we want to travel. Not only as far as Sydney, even one as close as Bogor or Bandung makes me want to clean everything before we go. The further we go, more massive the cleaning done.

On the day we departed to Sydney, I ran the washing machine twice, changed all the bed sheets and cushions, cleaning the table, and many more. In my opinion, when we travel, preparing for the trip is not the only thing we should do, but another more important thing is preparing the post travel mood.

Since we have no one to help us with domestic chores, I will be the one who will do and deal with all the post travel mess. Thus, coming home to a clean and tidy house is important to me.

Is that all? Sadly, no. I am the one who also unpacks all the luggages right away, not that kind of the following day right away, but literally right away after we set the foot at home. I couldn’t sit still until all the suitcases are safely stored in the cupboard, clear living room without scattered things, all souvenirs properly packed, washing machine start doing its job, then I could stop.

This is why the arrival time is also being highly considered when I purchase the ticket. But, based on past experiences, no matter how late or early, I always unpack right away. Arrived home from Tokyo at 2am, unpacked done until 5 am. Arrived home from Paris at 11pm, unpacked until 2am. Arrived home at 9.30 pm yesterday, all clear by 12.30 am.

They say people who unpack the luggage right away after traveling is a cold blood murderer.

Maybe 🤔.

Third, traveling reveals the worst in you. It reveals not only how annoying your partner to you, but also how annoying you are to them. There are times when I have been so annoyed by either the doctor or the little girl and I am sure I have been such a nuisance to them for many times. When everyone directly goes lazing on the bed or couch after spending hours outside, my choice is always tidying up here and there and sometimes I expect them to do as I do.

Je sais c’est impossible.

The situation of the room every morning before we left for sightseeing.
The golden rule : “You won’t be happy coming home to a messy place”

Last one, traveling brings some stories that are not available in any books out there. The old man while waiting the check in time, the lady in Rudolf Steiner book store, the taxi driver who sent us to the airport, all told stories that I could never find in any book stores. With the old man and the taxi driver, it was the doctor who talked to them while I listened while the lady it was between me and her. I actually like the listening part more than the talking. I found it more interesting (easier) when I listened to other’s’ conversations more than when I was the one who had to do the talk. Lazy girl.

Did I say last above? Well, another one then.

After one trip ends, traveling brings the ‘greed’ to do it another one soon.

The greed that made the four seasons of Ilana Tan trips happen within four years in a row.

Posted in Review, Travel

Review : Ke Sydney dengan Qantas

Pengalaman pertama kali naik Qantas jauh dari mengecewakan. Standar servis yang mengagumkan sejauh ini masih dipegang JAL berdasarkan pengalaman diikuti Qatar. Qantas sedikit mendekati Qatar.

Waktu berangkat jam 7 malam, flight on time dan smooth landing dan take off. Sehari sebelumnya sudah rekues menu halal baik dewasa maupun anak. Hanya pernah sekali rekues menu anak waktu naik Qatar 2017 dan ngga pernah lagi setelahnya. Terlalu hambar buat bisa dinikmati.

Pesawat pergi cukup penuh dan sempit. Makan malam sekali, snack kecil satu kali dan snack sebelum landing satu kali dan selama 7 jam penerbangan, kru kabinnya cukup aktif menawarkan minuman selama penerbangan.

Proses check in untuk penerbangan pulang di Sydney smooth sekali. Prosesnya dilakukan di mesin seperti self check in mulai dari scan paspor sampai memasukan bagasi dilakukan secara mandiri. Menyenangkan sekali, buat yang masih muda dan gampang ngerti. Buat yang lebih tua agak sakit kepala sehingga petugasnya tetap harus standby.

Waktu pulang, jadwal awal jam 13.55 waktu Sydney tapi delay sekitar sejam setengah.

Di pesawat pulang jauhh lebih menyenangkan. Pesawat lebih kosong, kami dapat duduk middle seat yg konfigurasi 3 meskipun agak belakang (di depan semua baris tengah konfigurasi 4). Pak dokter pindah ke window seat di sebelah selama penerbangan.

Mungkin karena penerbangannya siang, makanan ngga berhenti diberikan. Dari awal air mineral dan kacang, lalu makan siang, kemudian cookie, eskrim, kacang lagi, ngga berapa lama datang coklat, lalu terakhir sebelum landing datang pie dan apel. Cookie dan es krimnya enak sekali.

(Ini ditulis di dalam pesawat ketika snack halal sudah dibagikan. Setelah berapa lama, kereta makan datang untuk membagikan snack ke penumpang lain dengan minuman, dikasih lagi satu kotak berisi 4 biji samosa, subhanallah).

Memang yang namanya manusia suka ngelunjak. Setelah abis satu bungkus jcookie yang buat saya enak banget, waktu ke kamar mandi kepikiran buat nanya ke pantry mungkin mereka punya sisa. Tapi batal karena malu. Setelah dikasih sekotak samosa lagi, akhirnya coba nanya. Kalo ngga nanya jawabannya selalu tidak. Tanya ke salah satu pramugari apa masih bisa dapat cookie ini satu lagi dan dia jawab sudah habis. Baiklah.

Tapi sedetik kemudian, dia jawab lagi,

Asking won’t hurt indeed.

“Wait, hang on, hang on,” lalu dia jalan mundur ke kursi depan dan nanya ke salah satu penumpang. Satu bungkus cookie dari penumpang tersebut berpindah tangan.

Salah satu keuntungan rekues makanan halal sebelum penerbangan, makanan kami selalu datang duluan. Sehingga ketika penumpang lain masih menunggu makanan datang (dan kelaparan) kami sudah selesai makan. Buat saya cukup enak makanannya, setidaknya piring saya lumayan bersih. Flight pergi nasi rendang dan sayur, flight pulang nasi, ayam lemon butter dan buncis. Tapi, saya emang ngga repot soal makan.

Bersyukur waktu pemilihan tiket antara naik SQ atau Qantas dengan sekitar 2,5 juta perbedaan akhirnya tetap pilih Qantas karena dua alasan : tidak ada transit dan bagasi yang lebih banyak.

Transit di Changi ngga jelek sebenarnya, cuma untuk jarak dekat seperti ini, transit kurang menguntungkan karena hanya menambah lama durasi perjalanan. Terutama pas pulang. Selesai traveling yang diinginkan cuma segera sampai rumah sesegera mungkin. Kurang menyenangkan ketika pulang masih harus turun naik pesawat lagi kalo ada pilihan lain. Sedangkan untuk bagasi, SQ hanya kasih 20kg, sedangkan Qantas 30kg.

Pilihan entertainmentnya juga sangat beragam. Jenis film anak juga cukup banyak. Saking banyaknya, film yang sudah disimpan di ipad anak ngga tersentuh sama sekali karena dia sibuk nonton apapun yang ada di layar depan.

Secara keseluruhan, naik Qantas buat ke Australia sangat menyenangkan.

Oh, setelah dengar beberapa kali petunjuk keselamatan, cara pengucapannya ternyata bukan ‘Kantas’ tapi ‘Kuantas’.

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Sydney in 7 days

Traveling is impossible without itinerary but, I think it’s impossible to follow all the itineraries planned before. In 7 days here, only follow the exact plan for the first two days. We decided the rest along the way, especially every morning.

Our itineraries might be not suitable for everyone because it feels like doing nothing. Walking, sitting, playing, lazying around, even nap time is compulsory during traveling. But, we just enjoy what we like and this is the rest time where we’re granted a lot of time to enjoy all those experiences in a new place.

Life rarely goes according to the plan and I think that what makes it interesting. Here’s what we do in 7 days :

1. Arrived at 6.10 and put the luggages at the hotel and we walked around while waiting the check in time.

We stopped by at Haven for the doctor’s coffee. Followed by playing and rest in the playground near darling harbor where we spent 2 hours there.

We continued the walk to the It’s Time for Thai for lunch then went to Woolsworth for light groceries. We were so exhauste already and after that we just sat still in the hotel lobby until our room was ready.

Day 1 morning : walking around with heavy bag on the back

In the afternoon, we strolled down the Sydney harbor and Opera house then enjoyed the whole afternoon warching people in Royal Botanic Garden with Opera House view.

Day 1

2. We decided to return to the same spot but this time to ride on the ferry to visit the oldest theme park in Sydney. Luna Park is not as big as Dufan, but few times more expensive than Dufan. We still paid for that for one child and one adult while the other adult took care the bags and had nap time in the theme park.

Day 2

After nap time, we decided to have dinner in one of Indonesian restaurants in Kingsford. Our hotel is located in front of tram station and this restaurant is only one tram ride away for 20 minutes. It’s also located in front of the tram stop. So, it was very convenient and I was so excited to see the suburban life.

I recorded the whole trip and it was such a beautiful afternoon. After dinner, we went straight back home and that was when a bit of twist happened. There was fire somewhere so right after we hopped on to the tram, it’s stuck. So, we had to wait for the bus and it was pretty crowded. We couldn’t get on to the first one, but managed to do it on the second one.

We stopped in the front of Hyde Park which became our destination on the following day.

Day 2 afternoon : Trip for Nasduk ayam goreng and Bakso.

3. The plan for day 3 was just to have a morning walk in Hyde Park and coffee then went home to get ready. But, as always, plan was just a plan. Hyde Park was quite big so we spent few hours there. We wanted to visit Paddy Market after that, but, we passed Australian Museum and it was too good to be missed. It was almost 10 and ready to open, so we joined the queue.

Free museum with paid shark section, but it was so good. I really enjoyed the story telling they put in everything.

We went to Paddy Market for souvenir shoppings and some fruits. Then, home for nap time.

For the afternoon, we planned for fireworks watching in Darling Harbor, but it was raining and we had one of a must do itineraries the following day, so we decided to skip and sleep instead.

4. We woke up early on Sunday, prepared the bags and everything we needed to do..

A 6km of coastal walk from Coogee to Bondi Beach.

Normally, the route is from Bondi to Coogee.
But, we chose to take the reverse. Because, Bondi is wider and bigger, we want to stay there longer, and it’s easier to go home from Bondi.

Actually, we could just stop at Coogee or Bondi then stayed and played. But, we chose to do the long walk first instead. Some difficulties will add more ‘fun’.

Walking with some weight on the back, climbing up and down with some (a lot of) stairs, scooter on and off, the whinning and grumpiness from both ladies, arguing about this and that, those are not shown in the picture, but they are things that will make you remember the trip better.

Twelve thousands steps taken together will remain in memories longer, if it’s not forever.

Sunday walk with stunning view
Touch down Bondi

We went back and had a nap time then we went out once again for groceries. Enjoyed the night around Central Sydney and the town hall.

Night around Town Hall

5. This was the day where we planned to see some of the stores along the George Street. I wanted to find a proper Mary Jane shoes for little girl upcoming piano exam, paid a visit to Dymocks, the biggest book store here and Bed, Bath and Table in Myers. Didn’t find the shoes but bought something from Dymocks and BBT.

The Arcade

That day was mostly like non-itinerary trip. On the afternoon we just strolled around the George Street for another… groceries.

Wherever we go, groceries is my favorite itinerary.

6. The last full day in the city spent in Centennial Park for morning walk then followed by Bondi Junction to find the Mary Jane shoes for the little girl. The surprise thing was I found William Sonoma store here and so happy about that. One of the places that spark joy for me and the doctor. The beautiful plates, the kitchen appliances, the knives, the pan, the pot, sadly my wallet didn’t really agree.

The heaven

The afternoon stroll spent once again in Dymocks. This time was a Dymocks date with the doctor. Checked out Katherine May Wintering when it’s a signed copy on a sale while he got some cook book stuff.

One last spent for Dymocks

7. Home time.

Final packing and everything, then checked out from the hotel. One last stroll to get a cup of coffee for the doctor.

One last shot from the city.

Overall, Sydney is on the medium range of everything. It’s a good city in every aspect. when Tokyo is on the excellent level of hospitality while Seoul on the other side of the bar, Sydney is surely in the middle. Not a cheap city for our wallet, but not as expensive as Tokyo and Seoul, when it comes to eating expense.

This city is not as sophisticated and as vibrant as London and Paris, but you can still the vibe of Europe here while keep being exposed to lots of Asian cultures. Bahasa Indonesia is often heard everywhere we go, except the road less traveled like Bondi Coastal Walk and Centennial Park.

Thank you for the hospitality.

Till then, Sydney.