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Tempat Paling Favorit di London

Dua bulan di sini, temen ngga (belom?) punya, kenalan hampir ngga ada, rutinitas itu-itu aja, tapi tetep happy, karena tempat ini.

Seminggu bisa dua-tiga kali ke sini. Jalan kaki 5 menit dari sekolah Langit, 15 menit naik bis dari rumah. Ngga ada temen yang lebih menyenangkan dari buku-buku bagus. Dalam dua bulan, saya udah menghabiskan lebih dari jumlah total dari yang saya baca selama setahun terakhir.

Canada Water ini salah satu perpustakaan lokal di bawah Southwark Council. Setiap daerah punya perpustakaannya masing-masing. Koleksi bukunya lumayan lengkap. Setidaknya saya selalu punya bacaan yang mau saya baca. Selain itu, ngga ada batesan jumlah buku yang mau kita pinjem. Belum selesai baca? Tinggal perpanjang otomatis di mesin. Kecuali ada yang sudah booking di tanggal pengembalian kita. Itu harus dikembalikan dulu. Ada satu buku yang saya udah perpanjang lima kali karena saking sayangnya bacanya diirit-irit

Menyenangkannya lagi, di sini perpusnya bukan yang kaku ngga boleh berisik, bawa makanan dan minum. Di sini boleh bawa makan dan minum, bau harum kopi dan roti di cafe bawah bisa dinikmatin sambil baca buku. Kenapa baunya aja? Ya karena saya bawa bekal sendiri, hehe.

Di lantai satu ada area anak-anak yang mana hampir ngga pernah kosong, biarpun hari kerja. Hari Minggu bahkan lebih rame lagi. Kursi-kursi yang tersedia banyak dan mengakomodasi banyak kebutuhan. Ada yang dateng mau kerja pake komputer, ada yang perlu buat diskusi, ada yang perlu konsentrasi sendiri, ada meeting room kecil buat 10-15 orang, atau ada yang cuma mau duduk baca diselingin bengong sambil liat pemandangan danau di luar sambil berjemur (saya masuk bagian ini), semua ada dan nyaman.

Kegiatan untuk anak-anak pra-sekolahnya pun banyak. Mungkin kalo pindah ke sini waktu Langit belum sekolah, saya akan nongkrong di sini lebih sering lagi. Ada di satu hari, children arenya diubah kaya playground dengan banyak buku. Hari itu stroller-stroller lebih padet dari Tesco pas weekend. Bayi dan anak-anak kecil lari kesana kemari dan saya perhatiin orang dewasanya juga biasa aja. Bahkan ketika anak-anak itu ngelewatin quiet area.

Perpustakaan seperti ini berharga banget buat saya yang suka baca tapi banyak mikir buat beli, bisa karena harga atau penyimpanannya. Saya punya kindle, tapi baca buku fisik itu beda. Adanya perpustakaan seperti ini, semua kesenangan dapet. Baca buku fisik dapet, ngga musti keluarin uang, pilihannya super banyak, selesai baca ngga menuh-menuhin ruang di rumah, tinggal balikin, bisa ganti cari buku lain lagi.

Perpustakaan ini, dan saya rasa perpustkaan lokal daerah lainnya, bukan sekedar tempat baca dan pinjem buku, tapi sekaligus jadi pusat komunitas. Kegiatan lainnya seperti pemutaran film, teater skala kecil, story telling buat anak-anak, pesta piyama, kursus singkat bahasa Inggris, dan masih banyak lagi. Tempat yang pas sekali buat menghabiskan waktu tanpa menghabiskan uang. Semua gratis.

Perpustakaan yang mumpuni dan taman hijau dengan playground yang memadai, dua hal yang seharusnya wajib ada dan tersedia di sebuah area tinggal.

Dua fasilitas umum yang jadi indikator negara maju (buat saya), yang mana (mungkin), ngga akan pernah ada di Jakarta, (dan seluruh Indonesia).

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One Day Trip to Salisbury and Bath

Stonehenge had been on the bucket list for quite long time. I know it’s just stones, but reading a lot of stories about them made me really want to see them and most of the picture with them are so breathtaking. I was trying to fit this one during our 2017 trip. But, as that year trip wasn’t mine but more for others, so this one wasn’t included.

Stonehenge could be reached by train from London to Salisbury. From Salisbury, you’ll need to take Stonehenge Bus Tour to the Stonehenge Visitor Centre. Stonehenge Bus Tour runs every an hour and it costs 16 pounds per adult (insanely pricey, yeah). After arrived at the Stonehenge Visitor Centre, there’s shuttle bus to take us to the yard.

I was quite taken aback at the first sight, because, is it this all? Really? But, you must see them from different kind of angle. They look mightier when we see them from the other side of the circle. Maybe lots of tourists also made the view less appealing. There were neolitikum houses too which considered as the house of the builders.

The Famous Ancient Stone made by alien. Taken from the side less of tourists.
The Builders’ Houses

Done with Stonehenge, we went to Bath by train. It took an hour from Salisbury to Bath. We stayed overnight at Bath and explored the city the next day. I had one specific purpose to visit in Bath, which was Jane Austen Centre. As Mr Darcy’s fan, Pride and Prejudice, Sense and Semsibility, Mansfield Park, and Emma reader, Jane Austen Centre is a must. The ticket is £10 if you buy online, £12 if you pay at the centre. Is it worth the visit? If you are Jane Austen team, it is. The eloquent guide explained little details about the writer passionately.

Jane Austen Centre in Bath
Our Mr Darcy from Pride and Prejudice

Done with the centre, we were strolling around the city. We visited Sally Lunn, the oldest house in Bath from 1400 which sold the famous bun in Bath. The bun was really good.

We didn’t manage to visit some places as planned since the mood was quite ruined because of first paycheck drama. As usual, strangely, there’s no single thing run just smoothly about us. For the same simple thing, when others just have it gently and smoothly, we need to dig, sweat, chase, and spend some unnecessary energy until we make it.

In spite of the bad mood, I enjoyed the city and hoped to see it more.

Sally Lunn : The oldest house in Bath who makes famous bun

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Parenting Around the World

I am not a big fan of parenting seminar, but easily sold to well-written parenting books. While seminar is mostly sound like preaching, these books provide not only opinion but with fact and data, research results from journal or real experience to support their writing. I have finished all these five books and so eager to write about this.

European countries have almost similar pattern and idea in raising their child. They didn’t even know before that their country parenting way existed until four American Parents did some researches, observed things,interviewed the experts, compared some studies, then published their findings into an enjoyable reading (for me).

Although there were some minor differences, but they all agree on few big ideas from the very beginning : raising a self-reliance child, the importance of playing, social skills, basic values and character development over cognitive in early years. Those are some of important skills to master that lead to many things in the child future years such as lower chance of depression and anxiety, emotional stability, resiliency, and higher chance of being a happy adult, which also linked to the result of a happy parent.

Soothing himself to sleep and sleeping all through the night, is the first and foremost skill a baby has to master as soon as 3 months, at the very late at 6 months, no matter what kind of feeding (breastfeed or bottlefeed). All four books agree with this. Mastering sleeping is more crucial than stimulating any skills in the early months.

Eating habit becomes crucial especially for French and Dutch. Children eat what is served, any kind of food, and sit on the table. In Dutch, no one is eating until every family member sits on the table and they have chocolate sprinkles for breakfast. Meanwhile in France, even babies learn to differentiate and taste many kind of cheese since early years. No wonder when it comes to food, French is quite snob.

These two basic habits are important for the baby to set a routine and schedule. Mastering both make days easier.

French and German send their children to a whole-day daycare since early age. ‘La creche’ in France and ‘Kita’ in German are available free for all children, not only as a choice for working parents. Meanwhile most of the Dutch preferred the children to be with their parents.

All four let their child wander around alone in the playground, go to school by their bike or bus from the first grade, and decided what they want to learn since daycare days.

The Danes put strong emphasize on free playing for the first seven years of a child’s life. Playground time is crucial because it’s where the children learn about empathy, patience, and social skill. Lego was made by the Danes, which derived from the word “leg and godt” means “play well”. Children creates their own playing, even without the toys, and outdoor play is a must, in spite of season or weather. They believe there’s no bad weather, only bad clothing.

While French and German are more to stiff and rigid parents, the Dutch and Danes are more relax and fun. France and Germany primary schools are still heading to academic excellence while Denmark and the Netherland see school as a place for personal development training and social skills, without giving so much stress to the academic achievement.

These writers compared how different Americant parents raised their child. Kindergarten is the new first grade, a short recess time to play outside, mastering skills over growing values for the first seven years, cognitive development is a king until Vygotsky came up with what he called by “American Question” : “When will my child master… (insert skill : reading, writing, counting)?

The famous American Tiger Mom raised her two daughters in total opposite of how those European parents did. Bien sur, with more tangible and measurable result too.

“European parents main concern is for their children to be happy and find a community that they feel at home in. The main concern of American parents is for their kids to become successful in life”.

(We can replace American with some asian countries too).

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European parents are lucky because they live where the whole country raise their children together. Their parenting curriculum is clear and one for all. Saying Bonjour for French becomes a national curriculum that should be achieved by everyone. Also, they have many things to make raising a child easier.

From birth child support, free health care and daycare for all children as small as 18 months to 6 years, paid maternity and paternity leave, shorter working hours, long vacation days, big and proper playground everywhere, the society who put pedestrians and bikers before four wheel rider, no long hours to commute from home to work, one single national curriculum for the whole country.

While on the other side of the continent, the situation is pretty much different. Those luxuries might not be available for everyone, and the struggle is undeniably harder. When European works to live, most of American (and Indonesian) lives to work. No wonder an American writer countered the idea by writing an article : “French parents are not superior, they just have it all easier”. French is one of the countries with most vacations day.

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As much as I agree, enjoy, and have been applying few things even before reading the European ones, half of me stand on American side too and it’s great to know how both ways are aligned with Islamic parenting way.

When I was doing my final paper for master degree, I found an article about how Islam divides parenting in three big periods.

Taken from http://islam-today.co.uk/parenting-the-islamic-way :

The Holy Prophet(s), in a beautiful narration, has divided the upbringing of a child into three stages; from birth to age 21 :

“The child is the master for seven years, a slave for seven years and a vizier for seven years. So, if he grows into a good character within 21 years, well and good; otherwise, leave him alone because you have discharged your responsibility before God.”

The first stage is so aligned with European way. Up to seven, a child is a king. What he needs to do is play, no responsibility. The utmost priority is proper upbringing and character building. It’s the foundation of everything that he becomes of in the future. Universally good character should be planted before anything else.

Then, at the second stage, he is a slave. It’s when American style is suitable for this period to emphasize formal learning, academic or any talent skills. It becomes clear why salat also becomes compulsory when the child turns seven and should be punished if he doesn’t do it until the age of 10. Being a tiger parent is allowed on this stage.

I won’t go further with the third stage since I just want to point how Islamic parenting aligned with both European and American. I think the third stage is about the time the child and parents ‘see and enjoy’ the results of their upbringing from the first two periods. It’s when a child is a vizier, or in more a familiar word is minister. It’s the time when the child starts leading himself, know his preferency, and the parents need to be there as an advisor until the time he reaches official adult age.

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I believe parenting is not a noun, but more to a verb, which full of hard works. As a mother who raises a daughter without my mother around, I have a lot of questions that I want to know the answer, reading so far has been a good teacher for me.

In term of the writing style, Bringing Up Bebe is the most enjoyable one. Witty, funny, and examples given feel right. Also maybe because I was raised this way and naturally, raising Langit this way too as I wrote It’s Matched!

The Happiest Kids in the World is an easy and light reading. A Battle Hymn is very well written and couldn’t help feeling the same high tension while reading it as how tense Amy Chua raised her daughters.

One of the perks of moving to London that I love the most : library with good books is only few bus stops away and time and energy for reading is widely available. Another thing I will miss when I return to Jakarta.

Posted in Langit Senja, Places, Travel

Where to Play in London : Parliament Hill

This weekend we were going far to north by London overground to Hampstead Heath. The weather was getting colder and unbearable for my old body, but a bright sunny day was too irresistible for just staying at home.

So, off we go to Parliament Hill. Still in zone 2 oyster card. It was a huge garden with the feels like a small village. Proper playground is available, weekend market, and short hiking to the top worth the view.

Free playground, big and beautiful garden everywhere, weekend market, fresh air, blue sky, few things that make all the effort done to take the opportunity offered here (energy, time, money) seems worth every penny.

Things that we surely miss when we return back to Jakarta.

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A Must Visit in London : Greenwich

Yesterday was the doctor’s day off and suddenly the idea of going to Greenwich came up. After sending Langit to the school, Greenwich market turned out to be only few bus stops away from where we are. What I mean with few means less than 15 bus stops riding.

It was still too early and the market opens at 10am. So we decided to walk around and it was so easy to fall for this borough. It feels like being in a small village although Greenwich is still in zone 2/3. There are National Maritime Museum, Greenwich Park, University of Greenwich and those charming little shops that sell unique things.

Greenwich point zero located inside Greenwich Park. We did some hiking but decided not to buy the ticket. Non-free museum in London is quite pricey for our wallet. Greenwich Market has more charm for the things but not with the food. For this one, Shoreditch still has the best street food market.

I won’t write long and let the pictures do the talk. Although it was cloudy, but the heart was indeed happy.

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What to Visit in London I

1. The famous detective museum in Baker Street.

Ticket price : £15

2. Harry Potter’s filming site

The entrance of Diagon Alley

Millenium Bridge which destroyed by the Death Eaters
Borough Market, secret passage to Diagon Alley and Leaky Cauldron
Gringotts Wizarding Bank

3. Beatles store at Baker Street

Guess the quote below is so true.

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What’s next?

I didn’t know or maybe I rarely thought, there would be a day when I really have to let go almost all things that have been staying with me for a long time. Even worse, after letting go all those things, I don’t know where to go.

I have been always one with to-do list since I was little. Always come with a day to day schedule or long term plan,it’s all on my head.

Two first paragraphs were written before arrived in London and I just got stuck. Gonna try to finish this in one shot now. Hopefully.

It’s been three weeks since we arrived yet it feels as if it’s been few months. They say time flies when you’re having fun. But, saying that this new life has no fun too is pretty unfair. It’s far from easy yet it’s still survivable. We’re having enough food, money is quite tight, yet still on the level that I could accept, and proper good night sleep. Three basic things are secured. For now.

While the other two have started their own ‘pleasant’ daily routines, it’s still a luxury thing for me. ‘What’s Next’ has been continously questioned for some time before the departure and still no definite answer available. I have several things in mind, but none seem to be fitted well with the situation.

This week was the first week of Langit’s school days. School pick up and delivery become one of the new routines to be dealt with. She got into reception class, one level above nursery just before primary, just like kindergarten. The long school hours, from 9.00 am -15.30 pm also left me with long hours of leisure time.

The only daily routines available for now are doing houseworks, groceries and still playing tourists in between. Houseworks were still manageable. Tried to finish everything before sending Langit to school. Six hours of leisure time is too precious to be used for doing mere houseworks.

Grocery time has been always my favorite. Finally found the place which offered the most pleasant price for the wallet after comparing several stores.

Playing tourist is too unavoidable. London has a lot to be explored and I don’t even do much. I set one day in a week for me playing, just like today. Been planning to visit Harry Potter’s Diagon Alley since it’s only a bus riding from Langit’s school. It was raining but, it was very nice to be among the crowd where I didn’t feel like a stranger. Haha.

Professional work has still need to be working on. Found something yet it’s still on discussion. But, at least having something to be looked forward to feels soothing.

Maybe the answer from the question above is not meant to be discovered instantly. Just like many whys that I have been continously asking to the One who decides all affairs, the answer of my questions usually take a long time until they arrive at the right time. Never too soon, never too late.

Our moving to London is one of the answers from one of the whys asked long ago.

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(Ngga) Enaknya Pindah ke London Bagian II

Sehari setelah sampe London, kami langsung ambil BRP di kantor pos yang sudah ditentukan. BRP ini seperti kartu identitas sementara. Jadi, paspor aja ngga cukup buat yang akan tinggal lebih dari 30 hari seperti buat belajar atau kerja. Maksimal 10 hr dari tanggal kedatangan di UK, sudah harus ambil BRP.

Sampe kantor pos di Great Portland street, punya saya dan Pak dokter bisa diambil tanpa masalah tapi tidak dengan punya Langit. Alesannya karena di paspor utama ngga disebutin nama Langit sebagai anak, yang mana dia ngga bisa ambil sendiri dan harus ada wali karena dia masih di bawah 18 tahun. Jadi kami harus kirim email lagi ke Home Office UK supaya bisa ambil BRP Langit.

Hal yang bikin elus dada, beberapa hari setelahnya, kami baru liat dengan jelas, kalo yang nunjukin Langit adalah anak dari paspor utama itu adanya di Paspor Langit, bukan paspor papanya. Bahkan di paspor saya pun ada tertulis kalo saya dependant paspor utama. Sedangkan, waktu di kantor pos itu, yang sibuk dicek adalah paspor Pak Dokter.

See, bener kan, adaaa aja.

Akhirnya email dibales dan BRP Langit bisa diambil di tanggal yang ditentukan.

Lebih lucunya lagi, waktu ambil BRP Langit yang kedua setelah kami terima surat dari Home Office, petugas yang melayani kami bilang kalo kita ngga perlu surat kaya gitu. Nama papanya pasti jelas ada di paspor yang tertanggung. Petugasnya (yang sebelumnya) harusnya udah tau.

Emang kayanya prinsip hidup kami kalo bisa susah, kenapa harus mudah.

Hal kedua yang mendesak adalah rumah. Hari kami sampe, langsung hubungin puluhan rumah yang sudah disimpen di aplikasi Zoopla dan Rightmove buat bikin janji viewing. Ngga seperti kalo liburan tinggal pesen airbnb atau hotel, sewa rumah kita harus viewing. Bisa diwakilkan. Tapi karena kita ngga ada siapa2, jadi dikerjain sendiri.

Dibayangan saya karena segitu banyaknya rumah yang kami tandain dan hubungin, paling ngga akan lihat beberapa pilihan rumah. Ternyata saya salah. Dari sekian banyak, yang nghubungin balik itu, bukan cuma sedikit. Tapi hampir ngga ada, kalo dibandingin sama banyaknya rekues yang dikirim.

Saya hanya pesan airbnb buat 7 hari karena pikir akan pindah rumah sesegera mungkin. Tujuh hari aja udah mahal bener kan.

Kami akhirnya dapet janji viewing di satu rumah yang pada kenyataannya sangat ngga nyaman. Dari semua hal. Agak lesu sebenernya. Dari segi jarak ke rs dan transport cukup oke. Tapi rumahnya ngga oke.

Rekues viewing terus dikirim dan besoknya ada 2 janji dibuat yang mana jaraknya dari ujung ke ujung. Airbnb kami di utata, viewing jam 4 di selatan, yang mana perlu 4x ganti transport umum. Viewing jam 5 di north lagi tapi yang lebih jauh.

Viewing rumah yang di South cukup oke. Kondisi rumahnya bagus, lengkap, lingkungan bagus, kurangnya di lantai 3 tanpa lift. Ngebayangin akan gotong koper ke lantai 3 udah lesu duluan.

Saya selalu nerapin dua filter utama selain harga tentunya, kalo cari airbnb : entire place dan elevator. Makanya airbnb yang saya pilih kebanyakan ngga di pusat kota. Karena udahlah mau murah, trus mau yang ada lift. Itu jarang banget. Jadi, waktu pesen airbnb yang kami sewa sekarang ini, cuma ada 1 pilihan rumah dengan filter yang saya cari. Harga masih 60 dolaran semalem dan punya lift, akses bis dan tube ada dengan jarak yang memadai, ngga masalah ke pusat kota agak lama.

Selesai viewing, langsung buru-buru buat ke tempat viewing kedua. Tiba-tiba plot twist menyerang lagi. Di kereta saya baca lagi dengan seksama deskripsi rumahnya, dan ternyata itu ditawarkan unfurnished.

Langsung melorot jantungnya.

Janji ngga mungkin dibatalin. Jadi kita tetep datengin biarpun ya kaya liat harepan kosong aja.

Jadi, sebenernya yang tersisa adalah cuma 1 pilihan yang mana seperti ngga ada pilihan. Terpaksa pilih yang itu.

Agen satu rumah itu juga langsung hubungin kami dan minta data buat diajuin ke yang punya rumah. Jadi, di sini bukan kaya waktu kami sewa apartemen di Jakarta yang liat, suka, bisa langsung bayar sewa via agen. Di sini pemiliknya juga harus setuju dulu dengan profil kita. Jadi biarpun kita udah suka, pemiliknya ngga setuju ya ngga jadi.

Alhamdulillah ngga nunggu lama pemiliknya juga setuju. Saya pikir udah kan, alhamdulillah bisa pindah sebelum sewa airbnb selesai.

Hoho, seperti biasa, tidak semudah itu.

Jalan masih panjang. Jadi, setelah kedua belah pihak setuju, akan ada proses seperti validasi kontrak yang mana kita perlu memberikan data lengkap, pekerjaan, surat kontrak kerja, dan dokumen-dokumen pendukung lain. Sementara ini diproses, kami sudah harus bayar guarantee fee sebesar harga sewa 1 minggu. Dengan dibayarnya fee ini, iklannya ditarik dari peredaran.

Satu hal yang harus diterima dengan lapang dada adalah kami terpaksa harus extend airbnb karena jadwal kepindahan itu paling cepet dua hari setelah sewa airbnb kami selesai. Jadi, saya kirim pesan ke host dan minta perpanjangan dua hari. Perpanjangan sewa artinya makin banyak (uang) yang harus dikeluarkan.

Mungkin kata ini saya udah tulis berulang-ulang, tapi sekali lagi, Alhamdulillah sekali ditunjukin tempat ini buat sewa airbnb. Setelah kami, dia ngga punya penyewa baru sampe beberapa bulan ke depan. Ngga kebayang kalo di hari kita cek out, udah ada yang baru. Musti cari tempat baru dengan semua bawaan koper ini.

Kami hanya extend 2 hari di Airbnb karena dari agent bilang secepet-cepetnya kami bisa pindah hari Kamis. Di hari Selasa, masih kesana kemari untuk registrasi dan buka akun bank.

Sulitnya, untuk registrasi penuh di tempat kerja dan finalisasi kontrak rumah, perlu akun bank, sedangkan untuk akun bank pun perlu dua lainnya. Buka akun bank ngga bisa langsung buka kaya di Indonesia. Harus dengan perjanjian. Jadi kita dateng ke cabang yang di Euston tapi perjanjiannya yang di High Holborn. Tercepat yang ada slotnya.

Setelah urusan bank selesai, balik lagi ke kantor rekrutmen. Buat registrasi penuh, hanya tinggal serahin surat pembukaan bank. Pak Dokter naik sendiri ke atas sementara saya nunggu di bawah. Ngga berapa lama turun lagi dan bilang kalo suratnya ditolak.

Istighfar ngga berenti saking frustasinya.

Petugas rekrutmennya bilang mereka perlu surat yang ada account statement atau balance. Agak absurd juga mengingat orang juga baru bener-bener buka. What balance? Tapi mereka tetep ga mau terima. Waktu itu udah jam 3, langsung lari lagi ke cabang terdekat, minta tolong print apa yang diminta.

Orang banknya agak bingung karena biasanya surat yang kita punya pun udah cukup banget. Sampe kita telpon langsung petugas rekrutmennya supaya bicara jelas sama petugas bank apa yang mereka perlu.

Alhamdulillah 15 menit selesai semua dan langsung naik bis balik ke kantor rekrutmen buat kejar sebelum mereka tutup jam 4.

Waktu di bis, ada dua email masuk. Satu dari Dr Wilson yang wawancara dari awal nanya apa ada kesulitan dalam prosesnya karena mungkin dapet laporan dari koordinator jadwalnya kalo Pak Dokter belum bisa mulai shift juga.

Email kedua dari agen rumah yang lagi-lagi bikin jantungan. Dia bilang bahwa surat kontrak kerja yang kita submit kurang dari setahun, ngga sesuai sama ketentuan sewa rumah. Jadi memang seharusnya mulai kerja awal Agustus, tapi karena masalah surat sponsor dan pengurusan visa, jadi mundur. Baru bisa mulai September. Agen rumahnya minta bisa ngga ada surat baru yang cantumin periode setahun di dalam waktu sewa rumah.

Bener kan motto hidup yang di atas. Adaa aja.

Tapi, motto hidup yang di atas itu ada frase lanjutan. Memang kalo bisa susah, kenapa mudah. Tapi, selalu juga dikasih jalan keluarnya. Pas banget agen rumah email ketika Dr Wilson email. Padahal sebelumnya sama sekali ngga pernah lagi.

Waktu itu langsung bales email Dr Wilson nanya mungkin ngga dia buatin surat yang diminta sebelum jadwal hari kita pindah. Tanpa lama, suratnya langsung dibikinin dan dikirim hari itu juga.

Fiuh.

Hari Rabu dihabiskan dengan beberapa keperluan sambil nunggu kabar dari agen rumah. Setelah surat yang diminta kita submit, masih harus nunggu kabar dari lembaga sew rumah buat finalisasi surat kontrak. Sampe jam 3 sore belom ada kabar. Betul-betul ngga sehat buat jantung. Serba salah mau apa. Beres-beres belum jelas. Mau extend airbnb juga bikin lemes.

Karena tetep ngga ada telpon atau email masuk, kita telpon agen rumahnya jam 16.30. Ternyata kontraknya baru selesai dan dia baru akan email. Alhamdulillah akhirnya jelas juga kalo bisa pindah besok.

Kami pindah menggunakan jasa removal karena biarpun ngga ada furniture, tapi koper-koper raksasa dan berat ini ngga mungkin dibawa pake uber. Setelah nyari beberapa dan dapet harga yang agak kurang masuk akal, Alhamdulillah dapet satu removal servis pribadi yang harganya masih masuk akal dan masuk dompet.

Satu hal lagi yang buat bersyukur milih Airbnb ini, kita bisa cek out sesuai yang kita bisa karena ngga ada tamu lain sesudahnya. Jadi kita leluasa beres-beres dan sempet pergi dulu paginya lalu cek out jam 2.30.

Semua saya pastikan rapi dan pamit ke yang punya dan orang yang bantu cek-in. Alhamdulillah ga ada masalah selama kita tinggal. Di akhir WA, Mina bales WA saya bilang : “thank you for leaving everything tidy”.

Jam 2.15 proses nurunin koper dimulai dan jam 2.30 van berangkat sedangkan kami naik uber. Sampe rumah PR lain sudah menunggu karena rumah yang sekarang ada di lantai 3 tanpa lift.

Dengan dibantu orang dari removal servis, Pak Dokter berhasil naikin semua koper dengan selamat. Saya waktu itu berurusan sama orang dari Key Inventory. Tapi, tugas saya juga ngga kalah berat meskipun ngga pake keringetan : bongkar semua koper dan taro semua isinya di tempat masing-masing. Udah cukup (lelah) liat koper bertebaran.

Setelah 10 hari dalam mode turis tanpa itinerary ke atraksi wisata, Akhirnya kami pulang juga ke ‘rumah’.

Alhamdulillah.