In this social media era, it’s easy to judge things quickly. To compare the highlights without considering the circumstances behind the spotlight.
Just like marriage, that needs a certain age threshold for a better chance to survive and thrive, putting yourself up for public judgment also should be considered wisely and carefully.
It makes sense that there is an age restriction for using social media. Some say 16. I think that is even too early. For me, 21-25 is the safest age range.
Every time I see people being exposed publicly for something bad they’ve done/they have, I train my mind and my tongue to one thought and spell,
“It’s not you who is doing better. It’s Allah who covers your sins more gently”.
Then, rappelling istighfar for any thoughts of feeling superior.
May Allah always protect our family and us from any misfortune caused by our own slip-ups.
